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Adderall Addiction Treatment

Many see adderall as a “safe” drug because it can be medically prescribed and appears to lack negative side effects; however, adderall is one of the most addictive drugs on the market today1, especially for teens. Emerging adults, a population with developing, vulnerable brains, are more likely to take adderall to navigate school work, their social lives, and other stressors. 

Understanding the potential for addiction, health risks, and early intervention techniques can prevent long-term complications with this drug.

Understanding Adderall Addiction

Adderall is a prescribed stimulant drug that boosts nervous system activity2 by increasing dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin in the brain3. Individuals diagnosed with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) can take adderall to help enhance attention, memory, self-regulation, and executive function4. Those with narcolepsy can use it to improve wakefulness.

While adderall benefits those with a diagnosed condition, it does not substantially improve cognitive function in other individuals4. So for the students using adderall in hopes of better academic performance, or just using it recreationally, they are simply taking a stimulant drug. 

A stimulant use disorder alters the brain5 by: 1.) affecting cognitive processes such as memory, learning, and other functions, and 2.) acting on the brain’s reward system. The repeated use of the drug boosts dopamine, creating a craving to ingest it. With time, adderall use can destroy dopaminergic terminals3 and disrupt the natural production of dopamine—meaning, without consistent drug consumption, mood and cognition decline.

A dependence forms when individuals need adderall to feel happy or “normal,” since, without it, they may experience withdrawal symptoms like cravings, sleep disturbances, and stress. These negative consequences can also enforce the addiction. 

Despite common stereotypes, adderall is a serious drug that can cause addiction. Spotting the signs early can help prevent dependence. 

Signs of Adderall Addiction

The Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation, a renowned treatment provider, lists signs of adderall misuse6:

  • Trouble falling asleep or staying asleep 
  • Often “spacing out” 
  • Decreased appetite 
  • Restlessness 
  • Hair loss (often coming out in clumps) 
  • Headaches 
  • Dizziness 
  • Nausea 
  • Excessive fatigue 
  • Constipation or diarrhea 
  • Changes in libido 

If you are concerned for a loved one, a change in their behaviors can indicate an addiction. They may lie about their adderall consumption, isolate themselves, have mood swings, and lose interest and motivation in important activities so they can use. If their dependence continues, more severe health complications can follow.

The Impact of Adderall Addiction

Adderall addiction, like any addiction, affects all areas of a person’s life, making this even more volatile for the young adult population using it.

Health Risks

As a central nervous system stimulant, adderall alters blood and oxygen flow, contributing to irregular or erratic heartbeat, cardiomyopathy (an enlarged heart), and high blood pressure. Over time, these alterations can cause a slew of negative health effects, including cardiac arrest and stroke7. Chronic adderall use can also lead to skin disorders, seizures, brain damage, and kidney damage6.

Additionally, adderall addiction is closely linked with depression, aggression, suicidal thoughts, panic attacks, and psychosis-like symptoms.

Social and Emotional Consequences

The impact of addiction goes beyond physical and mental health—it affects all facets of life. Adderall addiction often leads to secretive behavior and isolation, such as lying about drug use or hiding the extent of the problem, eroding trust with loved ones and straining relationships. And as addiction takes hold, the person may neglect their relationships to prioritize using adderall. They may withdraw from social activities, fail to fulfill commitments, and become emotionally unavailable to those who care about them.

While adderall is sometimes used to enhance focus, addiction can lead to decreased overall productivity. For example, someone may become less effective at their job due to the need for higher doses to achieve the same level of focus. They may also frequently skip work due to the physical and mental toll of addiction.

Students may initially use adderall in an attempt to enhance focus and academic performance; however, over time, addiction can lead to a dependency, impairing cognitive function and reducing overall academic performance.

First Steps in Seeking Help

You can ask yourself questions like 

  1. Would you be able to quit using adderall right now?
  2. Has your adderall use caused tension or conflict with friends, family, or colleagues?
  3. Do you miss important events or obligations because you are high?
  4. Do you use adderall to cope with stress, sadness, loneliness, or boredom?
  5. Have friends, family, or co-workers expressed concern about your adderall consumption?
  6. Have you given up hobbies or activities you used to enjoy because you prefer to take adderall?
  7. Are you concerned where your health and happiness might lead to if you keep using adderall at your current rate?

The answers will likely be straightforward and telling if you need medical treatment. Telling a trusted loved one can help get you on the right path to recovery. They can listen to what you’re going through, help make doctors appointments with you, and offer comfort throughout the journey.

Your primary care physician can provide an initial evaluation and refer you to a specialist for a more comprehensive assessment, like a mental health professional or addiction specialist. During this appointment, you can ask questions such as:

  1. How is my current adderall consumption affecting my overall health?
  2. What are the signs and symptoms of adderall dependence I am exhibiting?
  3. Based on my evaluation, do you believe I have a mild, moderate, or severe adderall use disorder?
  4. What kind of treatment do you think I need?
  5. How can I safely reduce or quit my adderall use, and what steps should I take to do so?
  6. Can you refer me to any support groups or resources that might help me?

Treatment Options for Adderall Addiction

As you embark on your recovery journey, you and your care team can explore treatment options to determine the best fit for your needs.

Detoxification

Many people begin their journey by going through the detox process, so you can safely rid your body of adderall. You’ll have medical professionals there to ensure you’re as comfortable as possible. This can help you feel more focused and prepared to take on therapy. It is crucial to detox under medical supervision, as withdrawal symptoms can be life threatening. 

Medication-Assisted Treatment (MAT)

In some cases, FDA-approved medications, such as Bupropion and Modafinil, can be prescribed8 to assist the tapering process. These medications help keep you safe during detox, ease withdrawal symptoms, and alleviate mental health concerns. Medication-assisted treatment can last for a few weeks or for years to maintain recovery. Your clinical team can help you decide what treatments and procedures are right for you.

Inpatient vs. Outpatient Programs

Residential Programs

Residential rehab provides an intensive, distraction-free environment to focus on psychotherapies and learning healthy coping skills. Individuals in this stage of care live in the center and have 24/7 support. Ideally, the clinical team creates a personalized treatment plan to address the unique needs of each individual in recovery. 

You might participate in evidence-based therapies like cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), as well as holistic and alternative healing methods like yoga and massage therapy. The center may provide a blend of individual and group therapy sessions. Your loved ones can engage in family therapy, so you can find common ground, improve communication skills, and work towards healthier relationships. 

Outpatient Programs

Your care team may recommend an outpatient program if your recovery does not require 24/7 support. Outpatient treatment has varying levels of care, with partial hospitalization (PHP) providing a more intensive level of care and outpatient (OP) providing the least intensive. You’ll participate in the program for a few hours a day on certain days of the week, allowing you to go to work or attend school simultaneously. You’ll likely participate in therapies similar to a residential program and build your support network as you heal with others in therapy.

Support Systems and Recovery

Joining support groups like Narcotics Anonymous and SMART Recovery provide a sense of community, understanding, and accountability in your recovery. They offer a safe space to share experiences, learn from others, and receive ongoing support.

Family and Community Support

Creating a support network with strong relationships is a foundational aspect of long-lasting recovery. Social support in recovery can reduce stress, increase self-efficacy, and motivate lasting sobriety9. Your relapse prevention plan can detail how you will connect with loved ones who supported you through the treatment process. You may make new friends through sober activities and groups. Try your best to plan regular get-togethers with friends and family, as avoiding isolation and bolstering these relationships can make recovery easier. 

Setting and communicating boundaries in recovery is a practice of self-love and can enhance your relationships. Without boundaries, you may say “yes” to things you don’t want to, avoid necessary conversations, and be consumed by others’ negative feelings. Prioritizing your boundaries ensures that you’re aligned with what’s best for your well-being.

Managing Relapse

Not everyone in recovery will relapse, but it can be a part of the recovery process10—and that’s okay. Relapse prevention can help you address these obstacles and keep you on the right track.

Relapse prevention planning focuses on identifying and addressing early warning signs before they lead to a physical relapse, such as using adderall after a period of sobriety. This approach utilizes cognitive behavioral techniques to prevent relapse while equipping individuals with practical skills to manage relapse if it occurs. It combines education, coping strategies, trigger identification, support network development, and lifestyle adjustments to create a comprehensive prevention plan.

You and your care team can begin to build your relapse prevention plan by reflecting on 3 key recovery components: 

  1. Reflect on your recovery history. In treatment, what worked and what didn’t work? If you’ve relapsed before, what led to it? What were your triggers before you got treatment? Learn from mistakes of the past to make a realistic relapse prevention plan.
  2. Write down personal, relationship, and employment goals to highlight situations you want to be in and people you want to be around. 
  3. Identify your triggers—all the people, places, and things that could cause stress. Developing coping strategies for each trigger can empower you to live life without fear.

One of the most essential parts of a relapse prevention plan is building skills to navigate uncomfortable feelings and situations. You may practice coping techniques such as breathing exercises, regulating emotions through journaling, saying “no” to situations that do not serve your recovery, and exercise. This can help you walk into any situation with confidence. 

Attending outpatient care or talk therapy sessions can help you navigate foreign situations and continue skill-building. During individual therapy sessions, you’ll likely engage in various therapeutic methods like dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). 

Creating a daily routine that promotes physical and mental health, including regular exercise, balanced nutrition, and sufficient sleep, can bolster sustainable recovery11. A scheduling system, such as time blocking in a calendar, can help you avoid idle time that might lead to thoughts or behaviors associated with relapse.

A day of sobriety is a day worth being celebrated! The effort to choose your health and well-being every day is a great feat, so continue to reflect and pride yourself on your hard work.

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What Is Mindfulness Meditation?: Billy Wynne

Key Points

  • Mindfulness is the practice of paying attention to the present moment without judgment.
  • Mindfulness is not about suppressing thoughts or other aspects of our life experience. 
  • Mindfulness need not be religious and it is not a substitute for therapy or other clinical support for those who need it. 
  • Meditation is time we dedicate to the exclusive purposes of cultivating mindfulness. 

Just a few decades ago, mindfulness meditation was considered an esoteric, “new age,” or downright weird activity. Now, you would need to be living in a cave to miss reference to it. It has become so mainstream that it is on the verge of becoming cliché. Meanwhile, misperceptions about the practice abound, with common beliefs ranging from it being an exceedingly difficult and demanding discipline to it being little more than lazy navel-gazing. 

In a prior article, I summarized the persuasive evidence that mindfulness meditation can improve mental health, cognition, and overall wellness. In this article, I will explain what mindfulness meditation is and what it is not, with the goals of dispelling the mystique surrounding it and bringing this timeless practice down to earth and into your daily life.

What is Mindfulness?

It may be clearest to start by defining the mindfulness part of mindfulness meditation. Put simply, mindfulness is the practice of paying attention to the present moment without judgment. In this brief definition, you can discover four vital elements: 

  1. Mindfulness is a practice. Once we take it up, we can cultivate mindfulness in meditation (more on that later) and also in the car, going up the stairs, and in conversation with loved ones. Every moment is an opportunity to practice and deepen our mindful awareness, and that practice never ends. After a lifetime of reacting to circumstances automatically, with deeply ingrained habits, we are now setting a new course. It is a simple practice, but it is not always easy, and, as with any other new endeavor, it will get easier with practice.
  1. Mindfulness is about paying attention. How often do we coast through our lives without focusing on what we are doing? If we pause to observe, we might see that most of the time, while we engage in one activity, we are thinking about another. Taking a shower, we’re thinking about what we’ll have for breakfast. Engaged in a conversation, we are planning how we’ll respond. Going on a walk, we’re recycling an argument we had six months ago. Mindfulness is about coming back to awareness of what is here now. This awareness exists beneath our thoughts and activities, emotions and intentions. It is inherently clear, present, and non-judgmental. With practice, we can reconnect with this precious place. 
  1. Mindfulness is applied to the present moment. Thich Nhat Hanh said, you “have an appointment with your life….[It is] the present moment. If you miss the present moment, you miss your appointment with life1.” Our life only unfolds in moments. It doesn’t happen any other time. So often, we miss it while we’re preoccupied with revisiting our past or planning our future. Mindfulness is an invitation to reestablish an intimate relationship with what is happening right now, both inside of us and around us. In this way, it is about living fully and wholeheartedly. 
  1. Mindfulness is the art of nonjudgment2. We have a deep-seated instinct to rapidly assess each thing we encounter as beneficial or threatening. For the sake of our survival, it evolved over millennia as we learned to avoid predators and find sources of food, shelter, and other sustenance. Unfortunately, though we now live in relative security and comfort, our spigot of judgment never turned off. We apply it to sights, sounds, emblems of social status, our own ideas, and each other. Once you decide to notice your judging mind3, you might find that it is quite harsh, it never stops, and it reserves its fiercest criticism for its host: you. To be mindful is to practice noticing what’s happening before we add that second layer of judgment, allowing the dust we’ve stirred up to settle so we can see things more clearly.

What Mindfulness is Not

So many ideas about mindfulness have flooded into our culture that it is important to take a moment to “myth bust.” Here are a few corrections to common misperceptions about mindfulness:

  1. Mindfulness is not about stopping thoughts. As you can see in the description above, it is about turning toward the authentic experience of our life, here and now. It is not about suppressing; it is about acknowledging. This may be most important when it comes to our thoughts. We do not have to change them. We start by simply watching them as they rise and fall. Because we are no longer infusing them with more power, they will start to soften of their own accord. We will come back to mindfulness of thoughts in future posts.
  1. Mindfulness is not a substitute for therapy. While many individuals trained in psychology and other forms of therapy are also qualified to support your mindfulness practice, and the two techniques are often complementary, those who need clinical care for mental health challenges should not hesitate to seek it. This is particularly true for those who have experienced significant trauma. There are some instances where mindfulness when practiced without the support of a professional who is trained to deliver care for such conditions, can pose the potential for harm4. 
  1. Mindfulness is not a religion. The origins of mindfulness5 practice are most often traced to Vedic and Yogic traditions that were practiced in India over 2000 years ago, which we now generally refer to as Hinduism. Analogous mindfulness traditions also arose in aspects of ancient Judaism, Christianity, Islam, and Buddhism, as well as indigenous religions around the world. Despite these roots, the techniques of mindfulness need not have ties to religious beliefs. Recently, they have been intentionally secularized, perhaps most decisively by the work of Jon Kabat-Zinn in establishing and rigorously testing Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR). Whether or not you integrate mindfulness practice with your own religious or spiritual beliefs is entirely up to you. 

What is Meditation?

While we can engage with mindfulness anywhere, meditation is time we dedicate specifically to the purpose of deepening this practice. It’s the difference between the way we exercise our muscles all day versus the time we might spend in the gym lifting weights. 

Even within meditation, there are various forms – walking, lying down, etc. – but the most common, and the one we will focus on in this series, is seated meditation. We will delve into the details of these techniques in much greater detail, but the hallmark of seated meditation practice is finding stability of the body so that we can begin stabilizing the mind. There are forms of meditation that are characterized as “just sitting,” but usually it is recommended to engage our minds by focusing on a simple aspect of our experience, starting with the breath. 

While meditation often occurs in groups, and this can be quite helpful, it usually involves turning inward to investigate our own, unique experience and the nature of our own mind. With meditation, we can begin to see, perhaps for the first time, how our mind influences our perception of our circumstances and the ways we respond to it. In this way, as the clutter of our thoughts and judgments can begin to dissipate, we may discover a new way of being in the world and the boundless possibilities that offers. If mindfulness meditation has any “message” for us, it is simply to appreciate our opportunity to be here, now.

Next Steps

Having addressed the “What” of mindfulness meditation in this article and the “Why” in the previous one, my next installment in this series will focus on the “How.” I hope that, with what’s been presented so far, your interest is piqued and you are ready to jump in to this healing, invigorating, and joyful practice.

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Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and Substance Use Disorders: Dr. Sarah Anderson

There is a strong relationship between Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and substance use disorders. Research indicates that up to 50% of individuals with a substance use disorder also have an ADHD diagnosis, and those with ADHD are estimated to be six times more likely to struggle with substance abuse compared to those without the diagnosis (Davis et al., 2015). So, what accounts for this connection? 

Some evidence points to personality traits associated with ADHD that may predispose individuals to substance use. Other research has examined differences in the dopamine reward pathway between those with and without ADHD. The impulsivity and self-regulation challenges linked to ADHD, along with difficulties in executive functioning, is another factor that potentially increases the risk of substance use. 

Although we may not be able to alter inherent personality traits or easily address the complexities of the dopamine system, therapy can play a vital role in supporting and enhancing executive functioning skills.

Executive Functioning and Its Role in Recovery 

Executive functioning encompasses the cognitive processes necessary for planning, organizing tasks, following through, and achieving long-term goals. Additionally, executive functioning skills are needed to maintain a job, live independently, and successfully engage in one’s daily life. Executive dysfunction can pose barriers to recovery. Individuals with executive dysfunction experience challenges in organizing their environment, accurately remembering facts/dates/appointments, and completing tasks (Barkley, 2015). 

Additionally, the inability to manage impulses, initiate tasks, and self-regulate can result in significant stress and hinder one’s ability to manage life independently, which may lead to relapse (Mannuzza et al., 2008).  Therefore, when it comes to designing a path for sustainable recovery, individuals struggling with both ADHD and substance use disorders must engage in therapy that focuses on building executive functioning skills.

Occupational Therapy, Executive Functioning & Substance Use Recovery 

As an occupational therapist specializing in mental health and substance use recovery, my role differs from that of other mental health therapists. My primary focus is on supporting the development of independent living skills, which includes a range of activities such as household management, job responsibilities, driving, grocery shopping, cooking, and budgeting. Executive functioning plays a crucial role in a person’s ability to live independently; I believe it is one of the most important skills necessary for successful independent living. Currently, I work at a mental health and substance use recovery center. Many of the clients I work with have difficulties maintaining employment, keeping their environment organized and clean, consistently taking their medications, engaging in basic self-care activities, managing their emotions, handling their finances, and structuring their time. I can confidently say, based on client reports, that the vast majority of clients I’ve worked with experienced challenges with executive functioning prior to their substance use. Furthermore, many clients who sought treatment before arriving at the center have mentioned that issues related to executive dysfunction, such as boredom—which is closely associated with difficulties in task initiation and time management—function as triggers for relapse.

Therefore, to ensure they can maintain their recovery, it is essential that we focus on fostering the development of their executive functioning skills.

Key Areas of Executive Functioning

Understanding the relationship between ADHD, substance use disorders, and long-term recovery requires an exploration of the key components of executive functioning that are often affected in individuals facing these co-occurring diagnoses. Below, I break down each of these areas, highlighting their impact on recovery and strategies that can help enhance these skills for improved outcomes.

Planning and Prioritizing

Individuals with ADHD often face challenges with planning and prioritizing, which can lead to difficulties in breaking tasks into manageable steps and organizing their responsibilities. Clients I have worked with who struggle with these skills often have trouble paying bills on time, cooking, grocery shopping, and arriving at work punctually. Additionally, they may find it difficult to balance their time between work, family, friends, and other responsibilities. 

Challenges with planning and prioritizing can pose significant issues in early recovery, as many individuals who are newly discharged are tasked with managing new responsibilities, including completing step work, regularly attending meetings, and independently handling everyday life activities. Effective strategies to assist clients in these areas include the use of planners or digital calendar tools, which help establish a structured framework for daily activities (Cole et al., 2024). Other strategies such as time-blocking and creating actionable task lists can further enhance the ability to stay organized. 

The Eisenhower Matrix is an incredibly useful tool for prioritizing tasks, as it allows individuals to categorize their responsibilities based on urgency and importance (Jyothi & Parkavi, 2016). The matrix divides tasks into four quadrants: 

  1. Urgent and Important: Tasks that require immediate attention and are critical to achieving goals. These should be done right away. 
  2. Important but Not Urgent: Tasks that are essential for long-term goals but do not require immediate action. These should be scheduled for later. 
  3. Urgent but Not Important: Tasks that require immediate attention but are not necessarily tied to your personal objectives. These can often be delegated to others. 
  4. Neither Urgent nor Important: Tasks that have little significance; these should be minimized or eliminated from your to-do list. 

Using the Eisenhower Matrix can help individuals visualize their tasks and prioritize effectively, ensuring they focus their time and energy on what truly matters. 

Organization:

Organization directly impacts a person’s ability to manage various aspects of daily life. Effective organization helps individuals create a structured environment, prioritize tasks, and manage important responsibilities, including appointments, medication schedules, and personal commitments. For those recovering from substance use, the ability to stay organized can significantly reduce feelings of overwhelm and stress, which are often triggers for relapse (Kitzinger et al., 2023). 

When I work with clients, I help them create systems to declutter their living spaces, use visual reminders, and implement paper or digital organizers to keep track of their tasks. I also support them in developing personalized routines that foster consistency and accountability, which ultimately empowers them to manage their recovery journey more successfully.

Task Initiation

A common hurdle for clients with ADHD is difficulty in starting tasks, which often leads to procrastination and avoidance, further exacerbating feelings of anxiety and overwhelm. Two of my favorite methods to use with clients are the “5-minute rule” and the “Pomodoro Technique,” as they encourage them to work on tasks in smaller, more manageable time intervals. 

The Pomodoro Technique, in particular, involves breaking work into 25-minute focused intervals, known as “Pomodoros,” followed by a 5-minute break (Biwer et al., 2023). After completing four Pomodoros, clients take a longer break of 15 to 30 minutes. This method not only makes tasks feel more manageable but also helps sustain attention and reduce distractions. By creating a structured approach to work, the Pomodoro Technique allows clients to cultivate a rhythm that can enhance productivity and concentration. 

Additionally, this technique promotes a sense of accomplishment as clients complete each interval, reinforcing positive behavior and making it easier to tackle larger tasks over time. The regular breaks also provide opportunities for clients to engage in self-care or relaxation, further reducing feelings of stress and anxiety that can often hinder their progress (Gnanavel et al., 2019). Implementing the Pomodoro Technique can be a powerful tool for fostering time management skills and improving overall task initiation. 

Impulsivity Control

Enhancing impulse control, particularly when it comes to making unhealthy choices during times of distress or dysregulation, is essential for recovery. Interventions aimed at improving impulse control involve teaching clients mindfulness techniques to help them pause and reflect before acting on their impulses (Zylowska et al., 2008). Incorporating games and activities that promote impulse control, such as Jenga and Simon, can also significantly aid in fostering self-regulation. Lastly, cognitive-behavioral strategies can be utilized to help clients identify and challenge the thought patterns that contribute to impulsive decisions. 

Emotional Regulation

Improving emotional regulation is crucial for reducing ADHD symptoms and minimizing substance use behaviors. Difficulty in managing emotions effectively can result in increased stress, strained relationships, and other life challenges, all of which can potentially contribute to relapse. Teaching clients techniques like sensory modulation strategies, deep breathing exercises, and coping skills can empower them to manage their emotions more effectively. Incorporating expressive arts, such as drawing or painting, or physical activities, such as exercise, can also serve as healthy outlets for emotions (Hasegawa et al., 2017).

Working Memory 

Deficits in working memory significantly affect a person’s ability to engage in daily life. Difficulties in short-term memory can lead to issues such as forgetting important appointments, mismanaging medication schedules, or failing to recall coping strategies during stressful situations, all of which can increase the risk of relapse. To address this area, therapists implement memory aids, such as written reminders or digital apps, that assist in retaining important information and instructions. Training in mnemonic devices and visualization techniques can also enhance memory recall (Martin & Marsh, 2009). 

Additionally, engaging in mindfulness practices has been shown to enhance short-term memory. Research indicates that mindfulness can improve cognitive functions, including memory retention and recall abilities, by promoting focused attention and reducing distractions (Zeidan et al., 2010; Killingsworth & Gilbert, 2010).

Self-Monitoring 

Self-monitoring skills are important because they help individuals notice how they are doing and make changes to their behavior when needed. Clients often benefit from learning how to evaluate their performance on tasks and reflect on their emotions and thoughts throughout the process. Journaling or using mobile apps can facilitate self-reflection by allowing individuals to document their thoughts, feelings, and experiences regularly. 

For example, someone might use a journal to reflect on their daily challenges and successes, helping them identify patterns in their behavior over time. Similarly, mood tracking apps can encourage clients to log their emotions throughout the day, providing insights into triggers for anxiety or stress. This process of self-reflection can lead to more effective self-regulation, as they become more aware of their emotional responses and can devise strategies to manage them (Barkley, 2015).

Comprehensive Assessment and Goal Setting

To help clients enhance their executive functioning skills, the process begins with a thorough assessment aimed at identifying both strengths and weaknesses. This assessment is crucial, as it not only reveals specific executive functioning deficits but also ensures that the interventions used are relevant and effective. Without a comprehensive evaluation, important areas of need may go unrecognized, resulting in interventions that do not adequately address the client’s deficits. Standardized tools, interviews, and observations provide valuable insight into how these limitations impact daily life engagement. Once the assessment is complete, establishing goals collaboratively is essential. This process empowers clients to choose goals that are meaningful to them, fostering a sense of ownership in their recovery journey. 

By creating a collaborative environment, clients are more likely to make significant progress. This tailored approach not only addresses specific challenges associated with ADHD and substance use disorders but also promotes a greater sense of agency and self-efficacy. When clients feel that their needs are understood and prioritized from the start, they are better equipped to engage in the therapeutic process and achieve lasting change.

Key Points

The significant connection between ADHD and substance use disorders presents unique challenges that require a comprehensive approach to support sustainable recovery. Addressing executive functioning skills — such as organization, time management, impulse control, and emotional regulation — is essential for individuals with these dual diagnoses. By focusing on enhancing these skills, individuals in recovery can learn how to manage their daily lives more effectively and navigate the complexities associated with both ADHD and substance use.

Recognizing the specific needs of individuals with this dual diagnosis is crucial for developing effective treatment strategies. Tailored interventions that target executive functioning can lead to improved recovery outcomes and a better overall quality of life. A holistic focus on these skills not only helps individuals address the symptoms of ADHD but also empowers them to take control of their lives, establish meaningful goals, and create a sustainable path toward lasting recovery.

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Beyond the 12 Steps: Alternative Paths to Recovery for Young Adults: Megan Cornish

Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in these contributions are those of the individual authors and do not necessarily reflect the views of Recovery.com.

In 1935, Bill Wilson and Bob Smith were both fighting to keep their alcoholism in check while juggling demanding jobs. When they met and began to talk about their battles, they recognized a truth that would become the foundation of the recovery community in the United States: staying sober is a whole lot easier when you’re not doing it alone. By 1950, Alcoholics Anonymous (the group Bill and Bob started, also known as AA) had already helped more than 100,000 people find their way to recovery.

AA struck a chord in early 20th-century America. Its manual, called “The Big Book” by members, laid out 12 steps to guide people through recovery. The approach fit right in with the era’s thinking around addiction, spirituality, and self-care.

AA was built on a framework that included:

  • A primarily spiritual worldview
  • A focus on alcohol as the substance of choice
  • The belief that the ability to get and stay sober could only be found through a higher power
  • Strategies that were tested out and established by predominantly (white) men
  • An abstinence-only approach, with absolutely no substance use allowed

There’s a reason AA’s so popular. Research shows that, for many people, it works. In fact, AA’s 12 step program was found to be 60% more effective than other interventions for helping people get into recovery from alcoholism.

90 years have passed since Bill and Bob founded AA, and while it’s still easier to stay sober with help, a lot has changed. The old model tends to resonate with the older generations, who identify with the framework that AA was built on. But there are a lot of people—especially young people—looking for recovery resources who might not connect with AA’s traditional (and, at times, inflexible) views on recovery. And though it’s hard to find a non-12-step based recovery program, they do exist—it’s just a matter of figuring out where to look for what will work for you.

Recovery Support, But for Young Adults

YPR- Young People in Recovery

If you walk into a typical 12 step meeting, you’ll probably find people of all ages, but you might also notice that the average veers towards the older generation. Possibly that’s because it takes time to realize you need support to stay sober, and the young people who make their way to 12 step meetings are ahead of their peers. No matter what the reason, there can be a certain energy in AA meetings: stories full of hard-earned wisdom, decades-long battles, and the kind of insight that only time can give.

This wisdom is something young people in recovery need—but sometimes, they need support from people their own age, too. 

Young People in Recovery (YPR) is a non-profit that’s trying to offer exactly that. YPR gets that young adults (under the age of 30) in recovery are facing unique pressures: navigating college life, launching careers, building relationships—all while managing sobriety in a world where social media, parties, and stress are ever-present. 

YPR offers local chapters, life-skills workshops, advocacy projects, and social events, and welcomes all recovery pathways, including people in 12-step programs. They try to create a space where young people can connect with people their age who understand the here-and-now challenges they’re struggling with.

Recovery Support, But Not for Alcohol

SMART Recovery

Not everyone battling addiction is fighting alcohol. Maybe it’s opioids, stimulants, or even behaviors like gambling or overeating. And while many people struggling with other addictions find AA to be helpful, others don’t—and that’s okay.

SMART Recovery stands for Self-Management and Recovery Training, and it focuses on giving struggling people practical tools and strategies to overcome addiction. SMART emphasizes personal responsibility and secular principles, and it draws on ideas from cognitive-behavioral therapy and motivational interviewing to address any type of addiction.

Instead of 12-Steps, SMART Recovery uses a 4-Point Program:

  1. Building and Maintaining Motivation: Helping you identify and keep sight of your personal reasons for change.
  2. Coping with Urges: Teaching strategies to manage cravings and avoid relapse.
  3. Managing Thoughts, Feelings, and Behaviors: Using cognitive techniques to tackle unhelpful thinking patterns.
  4. Living a Balanced Life: Encouraging you to set goals and create a fulfilling, healthy lifestyle.

Now, while SMART Recovery is gaining popularity and has helped many people, it’s worth noting that there’s not as much research on its effectiveness compared to programs like AA. Early studies are promising, but more comprehensive research is needed to fully understand how well it works across different populations.

But if you’re looking for a recovery program that isn’t specific to alcohol, SMART Recovery might be worth checking out.

Recovery Support, But Not Religious

In 1935, faith and religion played a huge role in the day-to-day lives of most people. It’s estimated that as many as two out of every three people identified as religious by the 1950s. Today, that number is much lower—less than half—with one in three people identifying as “spiritual, but not religious.”

The move towards non-religious-affiliations is most noticeable with younger generations. According to research conducted by the Pew Research Center, only around four in ten millennials reported religion as being “very important” to them, compared to just 60% of Baby Boomers. Many young adults describe themselves as “spiritual but not religious,” or they don’t identify with any spirituality at all.

Alcoholics Anonymous, which is religious by nature, won’t work for someone who doesn’t believe in a “higher power.” And although AA has widened its definition of a “higher power” to include anything that gives you strength—even if it’s not a traditional deity—that concept still doesn’t resonate with everyone.

If you’re among those who feel like you might need recovery support without the religious or spiritual framework, there are a few options for you.

Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS)

The Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS), also known as “Save Our Selves”, promotes a non-religious path to sobriety. It was founded in 1985 by James Christopher, who felt that the spiritual focus of traditional programs like AA didn’t fit with his beliefs.

Here’s what’s different about SOS:

  • Secular: SOS doesn’t invoke any higher power. Instead, there’s a focus on self-reliance and confidence in your ability to change.
  • Self-Empowerment: SOS believes you’re in charge of your own recovery journey, so they try to support you in taking control of your life and making conscious decisions to stay sober.
  • Community Support: SOS meetings still provide peer support—they give space to share experiences and strategies without religious or spiritual discussions. 

One thing to keep in mind is that SOS isn’t as widespread as some other programs, so finding a local meeting might require a bit of searching. But they do offer online resources and support groups, which can let you access SOS even if there’s no chapter near you.

LifeRing Secular Recovery

LifeRing is another option if you’re looking for a secular approach to recovery. Like SOS, LifeRing was established as an alternative to religion-focused recovery programs. It also grew out of a demand for more flexible approaches that didn’t prescribe strict guidelines for recovery.

As a recovery program, LifeRing:

  • Empowers Your “Sober Self”: LifeRing operates on the idea that within each person struggling with addiction, there’s a “sober self” and an “addict self.” The goal is to strengthen your sober self through positive support and self-empowerment so that it can overcome the addict self.
  • Offers Flexibility: There are no prescribed steps to follow. Instead, LifeRing encourages you to develop your own recovery plan. Their motto is “Empower Your Own Recovery.”
  • Focuses on the Present: Meetings center around what’s going on in your life right now. Participants talk about their current challenges and successes, supporting each other but not dwelling on labels or past mistakes.
  • Keeps It Secular: LifeRing maintains a strictly secular approach. There’s no discussion of a higher power or spiritual aspects, keeping it a comfortable space for those who prefer to keep religion out of their recovery journey.

While LifeRing isn’t as widely known as some other programs, it’s gaining popularity, especially among young adults who are looking for recovery support that’s personalized to them and non-religious. As with other alternative recovery programs, there’s less research on its effectiveness compared to AA, but that doesn’t mean that you won’t find it to be valuable on your path to sobriety.

Recovery Support, But Not Centered on Men’s Experiences

AA was created by men. That’s not to say it hasn’t helped women—it has, by the thousands—but women didn’t even attend AA until after the Big Book was written. 

The experiences, challenges, and societal expectations faced by women can be really different.

Women for Sobriety (WFS)

Dr. Jean Kirkpatrick wanted to get sober, but found that AA didn’t help her—- at least, not in the ways she needed as a woman battling alcoholism. After discovering and defining the strategies and principles that actually did help her achieve sobriety, she established Women for Sobriety in 1975. 

WFS is all about:

  • Positive Affirmations Instead of Steps: WFS is built around 13 Acceptance Statements that support emotional and spiritual growth. The statements are about building self-esteem, reducing guilt, and getting healthy.
  • Holistic Healing: WFS views addiction as about more than just the substance—it also involves a persons’ emotions, relationships, and self-worth. As a result, the program stresses that women in recovery need to nurture all aspects of their lives.
  • Empowerment Rather Than Powerlessness: Instead of admitting powerlessness over addiction (like AA calls for), WFS encourages you to recognize your strength and capability to change your life.
  • Peer Support: Meetings provide a space where women can share openly with each other without fear of judgment.

WFS offers both in-person and online meetings, which is awesome if you’re balancing a busy schedule or prefer connecting from the comfort of your home. Plus, it’s secular, so there’s no religious component unless you want there to be.

She Recovers

She Recovers was founded by Dawn Nickel and Taryn Strong, a mother/daughter duo. Like WFS, She Recovers is specifically built for women, but they use tools like yoga, meditation, and mindfulness to bolster their recovery program. Plus, it tackles issues like mental health, trauma, and stress. 

The She Recovers approach centers on:

  • Integrative Approaches: She Recovers embraces all pathways to recovery. Whether a woman is into 12-step programs, yoga, therapy, or something entirely different, they’re welcome.
  • Connection is Key: The program is big on the power of connection and community. They offer retreats, workshops, coaching programs, and a strong online presence so that there’s always a way to connect with other women on similar journeys.
  • Self-Care and Wellness: She Recovers encourages practices like yoga, meditation, and mindfulness as tools for healing. 
  • For All Women: The community welcomes all self-identified women and non-binary individuals more comfortable in a women-centered space. 

She Recovers also offers a directory of Certified Recovery Professionals whose training and work align with She Recovers principles. Women pursuing recovery can find coaches, yoga instructors, dance facilitators, and other healthcare professionals that can support their pursuit of sobriety.

Recovery Support, But Not Abstinence-Focused

You don’t have to be an addict to want to change your relationship with substances. Alcoholics Anonymous has a hardline approach to recovery- if you’re an addict, you need to stop using all substances, period. But not all people feel like they need that- and not all recovery programs require complete abstinence, either.

Moderation Management (MM)

Audrey Kishline founded MM in 1994. She wanted to help people who wanted to reduce drinking to healthier levels rather than quit entirely. According to MM, problem drinking exists on a spectrum, and not everyone needs (or wants to commit to) lifelong abstinence.

The key features of MM include:

  • Personal Responsibility: MM encourages you to take control of your drinking habits by setting and sticking to your own moderation goals.
  • Tools: The program provides strategies for cutting back, like tracking your drinks, setting limits, and planning alcohol-free days.
  • Supportive Community: MM offers meetings—both in-person and online—where members share experiences, challenges, and successes in a non-judgmental environment.
  • Step-by-Step Approach: MM recommends a 30-day period of no drinking to help you reset and evaluate your habits before moving into moderation.

MM isn’t right for everyone. If you have a severe alcohol dependence or a history of failed attempts at moderation, you might benefit more from abstinence-focused programs or professional treatment. 

Finding What Works for You

At first glance, the recovery world seems very 12-Step centric. Young people especially might not vibe with the traditional framework of AA, since the spiritual emphasis, the abstinence-only approach, and the fact that it was developed nearly a century ago by and for men can make it seem out of touch.

But the good news is that there are many ways to get to recovery.

If you’ve tried AA and know that it’s not what you need to get (and stay) sober, remember you’re not alone—after all, what works for a friend might not be what works for you. There are other communities available to help you. Don’t be afraid to explore your options, remember that recovery isn’t a straight line, and keep pushing to find the path that leads from where you are to a happier, healthier life.

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25 Inspiring Quotes for Veteran’s Day

Veteran’s Day is a time to honor and celebrate the courage, sacrifice, and dedication of our military veterans. It’s a moment to pause and reflect on the freedoms we enjoy and the extraordinary individuals who have served to protect them.

Words have a unique power to connect, uplift, and inspire. On this day, we use them to express our deepest gratitude for the sacrifices made by veterans and their families. Through heartfelt quotes and messages, we aim to convey the appreciation they deserve for their selfless service and enduring commitment.

Join us in honoring these heroes by sharing words of gratitude that celebrate their unwavering bravery and dedication to our nation.

25 Inspiring Quotes for Veteran’s Day

Quotes about Honor and Sacrifice

#1: “A hero is someone who has given his or her life to something bigger than oneself.” — Joseph Campbell

#2: “We don’t know them all, but we owe them all.” — Unknown

#3: “This nation will remain the land of the free only so long as it is the home of the brave.” — Elmer Davis

#4: “On this Veteran’s Day, let us remember the service of our veterans and let us renew our national promise to fulfill our sacred obligations to our veterans and their families.” — Dan Lipinski

Quotes about Courage and Bravery

#5: “Courage is almost a contradiction in terms. It means a strong desire to live taking the form of readiness to die.” — G.K. Chesterton

#6: “Bravery is being the only one who knows you’re afraid.” — Franklin P. Jones

#7: “Never was so much owed by so many to so few.” — Winston Churchill

#8: “How important it is for us to recognize and celebrate our heroes and she-roes!” — Maya Angelou

Quotes of Gratitude for Veterans

#9: “To be free is the most wonderful thing in the world, but it comes at a great cost. Thank you, veterans, for paying that price.” — Unknown

#10: “In the face of impossible odds, people who love this country can change it.” — Barack Obama

#11: “The willingness of America’s veterans to sacrifice for our country has earned them our lasting gratitude.” — Jeff Miller

#12: “Veterans are a symbol of what makes our nation great, and we must never forget all they have done to ensure our freedom.” — Rodney Frelinghuysen

Quotes from Veterans Themselves

#13: “The true soldier fights not because he hates what is in front of him, but because he loves what is behind him.” — G.K. Chesterton

#14: “America’s veterans embody the ideals upon which America was founded more than 229 years ago.” — Steve Buyer

#15: “Some people live an entire lifetime and wonder if they have ever made a difference in the world. A veteran doesn’t have that problem.” — Ronald Reagan

#16: “I have long believed that sacrifice is the pinnacle of patriotism.” — Bob Riley

Famous Historical Quotes for Veterans

#17: “The brave men, living and dead, who struggled here, have consecrated it, far above our poor power to add or detract.” — Abraham Lincoln

#18: “Freedom is never free.” — Unknown

#19: “In war, there are no unwounded soldiers.” — José Narosky

#20: “My heroes are those who risk their lives every day to protect our world and make it a better place—police, firefighters, and members of our armed forces.” — Sidney Sheldon

Modern Quotes for Veteran’s Day 2024

#21: “Honor to the soldier and sailor everywhere, who bravely bears his country’s cause.” — Abraham Lincoln

#22: “A veteran is someone who, at one point in their life, wrote a blank check made payable to ‘The United States of America’ for an amount of ‘up to and including their life.'” — Unknown

#23: “To our men and women in uniform, past, present, and future, God bless you and thank you.” — Anonymous

#24: “For it is the veteran, not the preacher, who has given us freedom of religion. It is the veteran, not the reporter, who has given us freedom of the press.” — Unknown

#25: “As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.” — John F. Kennedy

How to Use These Quotes on Veteran’s Day

Sharing on Social Media

Veteran’s Day is an opportunity for all of us to come together and show our appreciation for the incredible sacrifices made by veterans. Sharing a heartfelt message or a meaningful quote is a simple but powerful way to honor their service. Consider taking a moment to reflect on what veterans’ sacrifices mean to you personally, and share those thoughts with others. Whether it’s through a conversation, a handwritten note, or a post on social media, your words can make a difference.

You can encourage others to join in by tagging veterans you know, thanking them directly, or highlighting the importance of their contributions. Using hashtags like #VeteransDay2024 and #ThankYouVeterans can help connect your message to a larger community of gratitude. 

More than anything, let your voice be a part of the collective recognition and support for those who have served. Your words of appreciation, no matter how small, have the power to remind veterans that their sacrifices are seen, valued, and deeply respected.

Including in Speeches or Letters

Veteran’s Day quotes hold the power to deepen our expressions of gratitude and honor for those who have served. Whether used in speeches, public ceremonies, or personal letters, they help us articulate the profound respect we feel for veterans’ sacrifices and dedication. 

In a speech, a well-chosen quote can set the tone or leave a lasting impression, highlighting the significance of their service. At public ceremonies, including a quote during a moment of silence or tribute, such as a flag-raising, adds depth and solemnity to the occasion. Personalized letters gain even greater meaning with a thoughtful quote that frames your message of thanks. In group gatherings, sharing a quote during a toast, prayer, or discussion encourages reflection on veterans’ contributions and sacrifices. 

However they are used, these quotes serve as a powerful connection to the enduring legacy of our nation’s heroes, ensuring their service is remembered and honored.

Creating Veteran’s Day Cards

Creating Veteran’s Day cards with meaningful quotes is a powerful way to honor the sacrifices and service of our veterans. These cards serve as a personal gesture of gratitude, showing veterans that their efforts and dedication are recognized and deeply appreciated. Including a meaningful quote alongside a heartfelt message allows you to convey your respect and admiration in a thoughtful way. Reminding veterans that their service has made a lasting impact and that their sacrifices are valued, offering them a tangible reminder of the gratitude felt by those they have served.

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How to Stop Shopping Addiction

What may start as harmless shopping can turn dangerous when it becomes compulsive spending. If your shopping feels out of control and you’re spending excessive amounts on clothes, gadgets, makeup, or other items, shopping addiction can be just as damaging as drug addiction.

By understanding shopping addiction and its treatment you can learn how to manage your purchasing decisions and well-being.

Understanding Shopping Addiction

Shopping addiction, also called compulsive buying disorder, involves excessive buying behavior that leads to distress or impairment1. An individual with compulsive buying disorder is unable to control their thoughts and actions around spending, and feels relieved after a purchase. 

Shopping addiction often co-occurs with other behavioral health conditions involving impulse control, particularly mood and anxiety disorders, substance use disorders, and eating disorders. Compulsive shopping tends to run in families, especially those with mood and substance use disorders.

When spending becomes compulsive, other life facets suffer because of the energy spent on purchasing. Pre-spending anxiety can govern a person’s entire life, only to be relieved by a purchase. The individual can neglect their personal relationships, health, and employment to shop, and they can also be in serious financial trouble. 

Signs and Symptoms of Shopping Addiction

Shopping addiction usually has 4 phases: 1) Anticipation; 2) Preparation; 3) Shopping; and 4) Spending1. Phase 1 includes thoughts and urges with a specific item or spending. In the second phase, the person prepares for shopping and spending, including decisions on when and where to go, on how to dress, and which form of payment to use. Phase 3 involves the actual shopping experience, which is intensely exciting and can even lead to sexual arousal2. Finally, the item is purchased, often followed by disappointment with oneself.

As this cycle repeats, loved ones may notice shifts in behavior and mood that make the shopping addiction apparent. Spotting these signs within oneself or another can help prevent further damage.

Behavioral Signs

You may notice a change in someone’s behaviors as compulsive buying disorder takes hold. Signs include

  • Frequent shopping sprees
  • Impulse buying 
  • Financial struggles due to excessive spending
  • Hiding purchases
  • Chasing sales and deals
  • Accumulating unused items
  • Often returning items (due to buyers remorse)

Emotional Symptoms

A person with compulsive buying disorder will cycle through different emotions1 as they move through the 4 phases.

  • Anticipatory signs of compulsive purchases include
    • Depression 
    • Anxiety  
    • Boredom  
    • Self-critical thoughts 
    • Anger 
  • Immediate consequential emotions after spending include
    • Euphoria 
    • Relief from negative feelings
  • Emotions following the purchase after the initial euphoria fades include
    • Guilt
    • Shame
    • Low self-esteem
    • Emotional numbness

Financial Consequences

A shopping addiction can cause severe financial consequences that impact both the individual and their loved ones. The person often collects debt from maxed-out credit cards and personal loans, which is accompanied by additional fees, higher interest rates, and a damaged credit score. 

As the addiction progresses, they may be unable to pay essential bills, such as rent, utilities, groceries, or medical expenses, leading to unpaid invoices and the potential loss of services or even housing. In extreme cases, compulsive buying disorder can result in personal bankruptcy, as the person is unable to repay their debts and meet financial obligations.

Causes of Shopping Addiction

Compulsive buying disorder is a multi-pronged condition caused by various factors. Understanding the developmental, neurobiological, and cultural influences of shopping addiction can guide treatment efforts.

Psychological Factors

The Diamond Rehab in Thailand details the prevalence of co-occurring conditions that can precede and worsen compulsive spending behaviors3, forming a complex and chaotic concoction. These conditions often involve impulse control and emotional regulation, specifically obsessive compulsive disorder, borderline personality disorder, and other avoidant personality disorders. 

Impulsive spending acts as a coping mechanism to manage negative emotions such as stress, anxiety, depression, loneliness, and low self-esteem, using shopping to solve the negative feelings temporarily. Shopping addiction can be both a product of and the cause for mental health concerns, necessitating personalized treatment when unraveling these conditions.

Environmental Influences

In a world consumed and fueled by media, people are taught that material possessions equate to happiness, success, and social status. Advertisements are designed to create desire, often exploiting emotional triggers to encourage impulsive purchases. This is especially true nowadays, with social platforms using targeted ads based on internet history.

For example, if you search for winter jackets on Google, you may encounter ads for trench coats on your social media platforms.

Consumerism is deeply ingrained in many cultures, with immense pressure to keep up with fashion, technology, and lifestyle societal norms. Social media amplifies this pressure by showcasing small, curated portions of people’s lives, often filled with luxury items and experiences, leading to anxiety and a desire to conform to these perceived standards4.

The internet also provides easy access to spending with online shopping. The convenience of being able to shop anytime, anywhere, has removed many of the barriers that previously limited impulsive purchases. Individuals may feel less inhibited and guilty for spending money as they have fewer in-person interactions, like handing money to a cashier, creating a false illusion of security behind a screen.

Biological Factors

Neurobiological theories credit compulsive buying disorder to abnormal neurotransmission1, particularly in the serotonergic, dopaminergic, or opioid systems. Dopamine, a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure, reward, and reinforcement5, is a key player in “reward dependence.” Dopamine is released when spending, creating a sense of euphoria. This reinforcement can lead to repeated behaviors in an attempt to experience that pleasurable feeling again, contributing to the cycle of addiction.

Irregular serotonin levels, a neurotransmitter responsible for emotional regulation and impulse control, are connected with various impulse control disorders, including compulsive shopping. Low levels of serotonin disrupt the ability to manage urges, leading to compulsive shopping behaviors as a way to temporarily alleviate negative emotions.

There is also evidence that individuals with a family history of addictive behaviors, such as substance use or gambling addiction, may be more genetically predisposed to developing other types of compulsive behaviors, including shopping addiction6.

Strategies to Overcome Shopping Addiction: Professional Treatment Options

Navigating compulsive buying disorder recovery requires a comprehensive approach that often demands outside professional help. Building an extensive toolkit of skills to manage negative feelings and impulses tied to shopping behaviors can empower you to save and spend your money confidently. 

Therapy and Counseling

Individual, group, and family therapy each offer a unique approach to help manage compulsive behaviors. Individual counseling, often through cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), creates a personalized setting where you and your therapist collaborate to identify the specific emotional and psychological issues driving the addiction. You can learn tailored coping mechanisms and practice using them when in stressful or triggering situations. 

Group therapy provides a supportive environment to share experiences and challenges with others facing similar issues. A group setting can help you feel less isolated and gain insight from peers’ experiences. You’ll practice accountability, build connections, and develop healthier social interactions, which can be a crucial part of the recovery process.

Family therapy is another important option, especially when shopping addiction negatively affects relationships and family dynamics. Your family unit can improve communication, address underlying family conflicts, and learn more on how to support you in recovery. Loved ones can learn how to set healthy boundaries and avoid enabling compulsive shopping behaviors.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Shopping Addiction

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is one of the most effective forms of therapy to navigate compulsive buying disorder7. CBT helps individuals identify and address the underlying thoughts, beliefs, and emotions that trigger compulsive shopping. By recognizing these patterns, you can learn healthier thought processes, coping mechanisms, and strategies to manage impulses. 

CBT helps individuals recognize the triggers and irrational thoughts that lead to their compulsive shopping behavior, such as stress or low self-esteem, as well as external factors like social pressure. You can learn to critically examine these thoughts and replace them with more rational, balanced perspectives. For example, you might learn to question whether buying an item will improve your mood or help you gain social approval, leading to a more realistic assessment of your needs. 

Medication

Sometimes, medication is necessary to manage the impulsive urges as well as the co-occurring mental health conditions like OCD and anxiety. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) like Fluoxetine, Fluvoxamine, and Sertraline can treat compulsive buying disorder1 due to the similarities in neurotransmission and behaviors with other compulsive disorders. 

A comprehensive evaluation can guide medication usage for shopping addiction. Your professional care team can help you navigate your needs to find the appropriate medication and dosage. 

Financial Counseling

In many cases, financial counseling helps individuals regain control over their monetary struggles, especially if the person is in debt or battling legal issues. The proper counselor or mentor can help you manage finances, develop better money management skills, and repair the financial damage caused by compulsive spending. You may benefit from creating a debt repayment plan, learning budgeting skills, and developing a healthier relationship with money. 

Financial counseling skills can serve as a strong foundation for lifelong budgeting methods. You and your counselor may set savings goals for major life events, such as buying a home, funding education, or preparing for retirement. Developing realistic savings plans and making investment decisions can help you align your long-term financial goals.

Support Groups 

Joining support groups like Spenders Anonymous provides a sense of community, understanding, and accountability in your recovery. They offer a safe space to share experiences, learn from others, and receive ongoing support.

Developing Healthy Shopping Habits

Overcoming shopping addiction requires a combination of self-awareness, discipline, and practical strategies. Recovery stories are built on everyday habits that support a sustainable, healthy mindset.

Creating a Budget

Adopt a strict budget that you and your financial counselor create for discretionary spending, limiting the amount of money available for shopping. By tracking your spending and sticking to this budget, you can prevent impulsive purchases and stay within your means. Apps and websites like YNAB and Goodbudget keep users on track with time-tested budgeting methods, as well.

You may motivate yourself to adhere to your budget by giving yourself a small reward, such as going for ice cream if you do not overspend each week. A day of recovery is a day worth being celebrated! The effort to choose your health and well-being every day is a great feat, so continue to reflect and pride yourself on your hard work.

Mindful Shopping

When shopping for necessities, ask yourself whether you truly need the item, how it aligns with your values, and what the long-term consequences of the purchase will be. Mindfulness can help you stay grounded and make more intentional decisions.

Consider using cash instead of credit cards to make purchases, as this can help you directly feel the impact of spending. You could remove saved payment information from online shopping accounts, making it less convenient to make impulsive purchases, too.

You can also practice delayed gratification. By implementing a “cooling-off” period—waiting 24+ hours before making a purchase—you give yourself time to evaluate whether the item is truly necessary, which can help reduce impulsive buying.

Lifestyle Changes

Occasionally deleting social media apps can offer solace from advertisements and convincing influencers who tell you to try the newest product. You can also try unsubscribing from marketing emails or limiting time spent on shopping sites with website controls to reduce the urge to shop.

Real dopamine from healthy activities is the best kind of dopamine. Rediscover and reignite your passions by reading, painting, taking walks, and volunteering to keep you occupied and fulfilled.

Preventing Relapse

Relapse prevention planning aims to recognize and address warning signals before they escalate to the physical stage—compulsive spending. It takes a cognitive behavioral approach to preventing relapse and provides appropriate skills for what to do if a relapse does occur. It blends education, coping strategy development, trigger identification, building support networks, and lifestyle changes.

Identifying Triggers

You and your care team can begin to build your relapse prevention plan by reflecting on 3 key recovery components: 

  1. Reflect on your recovery history. In treatment, what worked and what didn’t work? If you’ve relapsed before, what led to it? What were your triggers before you got treatment? Learn from mistakes of the past to make a realistic relapse prevention plan.
  2. Write down personal, relationship, and employment goals to highlight situations you want to be in and people you want to be around. 
  3. Identify your triggers—all the people, places, and things that could cause stress. Developing coping strategies for each trigger can empower you to live life without fear.

One of the most essential parts of a relapse prevention plan is building skills to navigate uncomfortable feelings and situations. You may practice coping techniques such as breathing exercises, regulating emotions through journaling, and saying “no” to situations that do not serve your recovery. This can help you walk into any situation with confidence. 

Ongoing Support

Attending outpatient care or talk therapy sessions can help you navigate foreign situations and continue skill-building. During individual therapy sessions, you’ll likely engage in various therapeutic methods like dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). 

What Real People are Doing

A user on Reddit shares their practical and realistic lifestyle changes that helped them overcome shopping addiction8, serving as an inspiring example for others facing similar struggles. They walk through the importance of decluttering, adopting mindful shopping practices, and creating a monthly budget to track their spending. 

By focusing on delayed gratification and shifting their mindset from impulsive buying to intentional purchasing, they successfully broke free from compulsive shopping. Their experience highlights how small, sustainable changes in daily habits and financial awareness can make a significant impact on their physical, mental, and financial well-being.

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The Signs a Young Adult May Have an Eating Disorder

Adolescence and early adulthood are pivotal periods for navigating life’s challenges and developing a sense of identity, particularly when it comes to mental health. During this time, external pressures can contribute to the rise of eating disorders, which have become a silent epidemic among young adults. Disorders like anorexia, bulimia, and binge eating not only impact physical health—leading to malnutrition, heart complications, and other severe conditions—but also take a profound toll on mental well-being.

Recognizing the signs early during these formative years can make the difference between a lifelong struggle and a successful recovery. Early intervention allows young adults to regain their health, rebuild self-esteem, and restore a healthy relationship with food and body image.

Listen to our podcast episode with Dana Sedlak (LCSW, CEDS-C) to learn more about eating disorders and adolescent treatment options. 

Common Types of Eating Disorders in Young Adults

Eating disorders can affect anyone, but especially young people. The average onset begins between ages 18-211, a time when individuals are particularly vulnerable to societal pressures and body image concerns. Each eating disorder is a complicated and multifaceted condition that requires specialized care.

Anorexia Nervosa

Anorexia nervosa is characterized by an intense fear of gaining weight and a distorted body image, leading to severe restriction of food intake1. People with anorexia often have an obsession with being thin and extreme dieting, excessive exercise, or other behaviors to avoid weight gain.

A person with anorexia nervosa can drastically lose weight, refuse to maintain a healthy weight, and fixate on calorie counting or food-related rituals. Despite the risks such as malnutrition, fatigue, and weakened immune function, the fear of gaining weight drives the person’s cycle of restrictive behaviors.

Bulimia Nervosa

Bulimia nervosa involves cycles of binge eating followed by compensatory behaviors, or “purging,” to prevent weight gain2. During a binge, the individual can feel “out of control” while eating and consume a large amount of food in a short period of time, followed by intense guilt, shame, or distress. To counteract the binge and these negative feelings, the person purges by self-induced vomiting, excessive laxative use, or extreme exercise. 

Unlike anorexia, people with bulimia may maintain a normal or above-average weight, making the disorder less immediately visible. However, bulimia can lead to serious health complications, including electrolyte imbalances, gastrointestinal problems, dental erosion, and heart issues, making it a dangerous and harmful disorder if left untreated.

Binge Eating Disorder

Binge eating disorder (BED) has recurrent binge episodes, and, unlike bulimia nervosa, individuals do not purge3. During a binge, the person may eat rapidly, eat until uncomfortably full, eat large quantities even when not hungry, and isolate themselves, then feel ashamed or guilty afterward. These intense emotions can lead to a cycle of emotional eating. 

Someone with BED does not take immediate action to counteract the calories consumed, leading to weight gain and health risks like obesity, diabetes, and cardiovascular issues. 

Other Specified Feeding or Eating Disorders (OSFED)

Some eating disorders may not neatly fit into the traditional categories but still have severe health implications. Avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID), for example, is when individuals limit food intake due to a lack of interest in eating4 or an aversion to certain textures or tastes, rather than concerns about body image. Orthorexia nervosa, though not officially recognized as an eating disorder, involves an unhealthy obsession with eating foods deemed “pure” or “healthy,”5 which can lead to severe dietary restrictions and malnutrition.

Other specified feeding or eating disorders (OSFED) can also be a diagnostic category for individuals who exhibit significant eating disorder behaviors but do not meet the full criteria6 for anorexia, bulimia, or BED. OSFED can include a wide range of disordered eating patterns that still pose serious health risks, such as night eating syndrome or purging disorder. 

Physical Signs of an Eating Disorder

While weight fluctuation is perfectly normal, staying vigilant to your child’s physical and mental well-being can help you discern if the changes are healthy or warning signs of an eating disorder. 

Noticeable Weight Changes

Restrictive eating behaviors can result in weight loss, as seen in anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa, where food intake is drastically reduced or purging prevents weight gain. This weight loss often comes with other red flags, including fatigue and dizziness as the body becomes deprived of essential nutrients.

Conversely, rapid weight gain can indicate BED with frequent episodes of overeating. 

When talking to your child about weight loss or gain, remember that this topic is sensitive and accompanied by a host of negative feelings. Instead of focusing on their weight, you can discuss your concern about their eating habits and its impact on their health.

Physical Health Issues

Outside of weight, unhealthy eating behaviors impact all parts of the body via inadequate nutrition or harmful behaviors like vomiting. Carbohydrates serve as the brain’s main energy source7, so severely restricting food intake causes low energy levels, dizziness, and fatigue8 as well as cognitive impairment and decline.  

Symptoms such as bloating, constipation, or abdominal pain can manifest from irregular eating patterns9, starvation, or the misuse of laxatives.

For women, hormonal imbalances due to extreme weight loss or nutritional deficiency can cause amenorrhea10, or disruptions or complete cessation of their menstrual cycle. In these cases, the body prioritizes essential survival functions over the reproductive system, which has the potential for long-term harm.

Changes in Appearance

Due to a lack of essential nutrients, particularly protein and vitamins, hair and nails become brittle and dry11. Malnutrition and dehydration can also cause the skin to lose its elasticity and moisture, leading to a dry and flaky appearance.

Purging behaviors, such as vomiting, create dental problems as stomach acid erodes tooth enamel12. This can lead to tooth decay, sensitivity, discoloration, and even gum disease. Chronic vomiting can also damage the throat and mouth lining.

Behavioral Signs of an Eating Disorder

Often, someone with an eating disorder will try to hide their unhealthy eating habits. If you suspect that your child has an eating disorder, try to pick up on the subtle behavioral indicators that they may need help.

Obsession with Food and Weight

In an attempt to maintain control over their weight and emotions, they may constantly track every calorie consumed, often to an extreme degree, indicating an unhealthy relationship with food. Chronic dieting or switching between restrictive eating plans disrupt normal eating patterns, contributing to a cycle of weight loss and gain, damaging both physical health and mental stability.

By fixating on their body image, they may have a distorted view of their own size, even when underweight. You may notice frequent body checking (e.g., excessively looking in mirrors, pinching skin). 

Secretive Behavior

Rooted in deep emotional struggles related to body image and self-worth, someone with an eating disorder may isolate themselves and exhibit sneaky behavior around meals. They may stash or hide food in their room, bags, or other secret locations and consume large quantities of food privately. 

The person can lie about their eating habits, claiming to have eaten when they haven’t or significantly downplaying how much they ate. Or they may immediately leave the table after eating to purge. 

Emotional and Psychological Signs

While the most obvious signs of an eating disorder appear physically, the emotional distress behind the changes can sometimes have the most negative impact. 

Mood Swings and Irritability

When the body is fighting to function without proper fuel (food), cognition declines. Malnutrition and restrictive behaviors can affect brain chemistry13, leading to a lower tolerance for life’s ups and downs and causing sadness, frustration, or mood swings. 

Eating disorders like anorexia can lead to structural changes in the brain14 such as loss of gray matter and decreased thickness of the cerebral cortex and the outer layer of the brain. These mutations influence emotional regulation, lending to an overall negative affect.

Anxiety and Depression

It’s no coincidence the rise of anxiety and depression among young adults correlates with the onset of eating disorders15. These conditions provoke more severe disordered eating symptoms and create a complex web of co-occurring conditions necessitating specialized treatment. 

Much like anxiety and depression, someone with an eating disorder tends to have low self-esteem and withdraw from social activities, either due to fear of eating with others or from fatigue. A constant preoccupation with food, weight, and body image also creates emotional exhaustion, exacerbating the symptoms.  

Perfectionism and Control Issues

For some, controlling their eating is a way to process and cope with situations that are out of their control—usually spiraling into unhealthy and restrictive habits. Perfectionism can manifest as strict dietary rules and an extreme exercise regimen to feed the obsession of an ideal body type. And when they fall short of these unattainable standards, the person can experience intense self-criticism and guilt, perpetuating disordered eating patterns.

Eating disorders often coincide with conditions like obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) and other compulsive disorders as both are driven by intrusive, distressing thoughts16. Someone with these co-occurring conditions may severely restrict their food among other behavioral rituals in an attempt to control their anxieties and thoughts. Each disorder has a unique impact on the brain and body, requiring individualized care.

Impact on Daily Life

Physical, behavioral, and emotional disruptions can blend into a symphony of destructive daily habits, worsening the eating disorder. Over time, this degrades the person’s overall well-being.

Academic Performance

Depriving the brain of proper nutrition leads to poor attention, concentration, and problem solving skills13, therefore decreasing academic performance. Students can then feel overwhelmed and frustrated by their poor performance, contributing to a cycle of restrictive behaviors and underperformance.

Beyond the physical impact of malnutrition, obsessive thoughts and anxieties can further disrupt concentration as they fixate on counting calories, planning meals, or their weight. Mood swings may also make it hard to stay present in academic settings.

Social Withdrawal

People with eating disorders tend to distance themselves from loved ones, avoiding social interactions and family gatherings to hide their food habits. They may feel ashamed of their eating disorder and concerned about judgements from worried friends and family. 

Isolation can only worsen the negative thought patterns involved in an eating disorder as a cycle of rumination grows. If you’re concerned about your child, you can try to do low stress, fun activities with them without mentioning their weight or eating habits to break this habit.

Daily Routine Disruptions

Eating disorders often interfere with healthy sleep17 due to energy and hormonal imbalances, leading to issues such as insomnia and irregular sleep patterns. This lack of sleep and food can contribute to poor concentration, irritability, and more.

Many individuals, particularly those with anorexia nervosa, orthorexia, or bulimia nervosa, compulsively or excessively exercise as a way to control weight or “burn off” calories. This overexercising can become a rigid part of their routine, often prioritized over other aspects of life, including social activities, rest, or work. 

Whether through lost hours of sleep, a preoccupation with exercise, or difficulty completing daily tasks due to fatigue, an eating disorder can take over much of their mental and physical energy.

When to Seek Professional Help

There is no such thing as a “bad” time to ask for help—whether you’re noticing the onset of eating disorder warning signs or the person needs serious medical care, professional treatment and family support can help your young adult not feel alone in their struggles.

Consulting Healthcare Providers

A healthcare professional can offer tailored insights for eating disorders and collaborate with you to create an achievable care plan. 

A pediatrician or general practitioner can be a good first point of contact. They can perform an initial physical assessment to evaluate the individual’s overall health, checking for signs of malnutrition, weight loss, or other physical symptoms associated with eating disorders (heart irregularities, electrolyte imbalances, or gastrointestinal issues). After these initial meetings, the practitioner can refer you to a specialist.

You may employ a diverse range of professionals to treat the eating disorder and any co-occurring conditions. Eating disorders are often linked to deep-seated emotional and psychological issues such as anxiety, so a psychologist can help address the mental and emotional aspects of each disorder through therapy. A registered dietitian specializing in eating disorders plays a crucial role in nutritional rehabilitation, as well. They can help restore a healthy relationship with food by creating personalized meal plans that support both physical and emotional recovery.

When necessary, eating disorder treatment centers offer intensive, multidisciplinary care based on the client’s needs. Some people with eating disorders may need a more intensive level of care to help monitor and manage their symptoms. When talking to your doctor, you can figure out which level of care best fits your needs:

  • Outpatient (OP): You’ll meet 1-2x per week with your provider and others in treatment.
  • Intensive outpatient (IOP): You’ll meet 3-5x per week for several hours at a time for more intensive care.
  • Partial hospitalization (PHP): You’ll meet 5-7 times a week for a full day.
  • Residential: You’ll live in a rehab for 28+ days and engage in treatment with a comprehensive staff and a community of peers.
  • Inpatient: You’ll live in a treatment center or hospital-like setting and have 24/7 monitoring.

Supporting a Young Adult with an Eating Disorder

Your child might be going through a confusing and complex time, and your support can set them on the path to a healthy relationship with their mind and body.

Open Communication

When talking to your young adult, it’s important that they feel safe in their space and in the conversation to be honest and vulnerable. Try to approach them with a non-judgemental tone, and calmly voice your concerns. You can say phrases like “I’ve noticed that you seem to be struggling with eating lately, and I’m concerned about your health.” This approach focuses on your feelings and observations rather than making the person feel judged or blamed.

Avoid talking about their physical appearance. Comments about their size, even if intended to be positive or neutral, can reinforce the focus on body image and exacerbate shame and guilt. 

Change takes time, and they may not be ready to acknowledge their problem immediately. Be patient and try to avoid threatening language, as this may push them away or increase their resistance to seeking help.

Let them know that you are there for them, regardless of their response to your concerns. Make it clear that your support is unwavering, and they can talk to you whenever they feel ready.

Creating a Supportive Environment

Your home can be a safe space where your young adult feels encouraged, understood, and supported in their journey toward health and well-being. In addition to having filling, nutrient dense foods, you can create a comfortable environment that encourages discussing emotions, struggles, and progress without fear of judgment.

You can be a positive role model for your child. Try to avoid dieting and weight talk, as this can reinforce disordered thinking. Shift the focus from appearance and weight to overall health and well-being, as this helps reduce the pressure they may feel to meet certain body image standards.

Recovery from an eating disorder is often a long and complex process, with setbacks and challenges along the way. Be patient and compassionate as they navigate their journey.

Resources for Further Help

These resources provide various levels of support, from immediate crisis intervention to long-term recovery assistance, and are available to individuals, families, and caregivers.

Hotlines:

  1. National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) Helpline

Phone: 1-800-931-2237

Text: Text “NEDA” to 741741 for 24/7 crisis support

  1. Crisis Text Line

Text: Text “HELLO” to 741741

  1. The Trevor Project (for LGBTQ+ youth)

Phone: 1-866-488-7386

Text: Text “START” to 678678

Websites:

  1. National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA): Offers comprehensive resources, including a screening tool, information on treatment options, and support forums.
  2. National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders (ANAD): Offers free, peer-led support groups, mentoring programs, and educational resources for individuals and families affected by eating disorders.
  3. Eating Disorder Hope: Provides resources on eating disorder treatment, recovery tools, and educational information for individuals and families.
  4. BEAT (United Kingdom): Offers support, resources, and a helpline for individuals with eating disorders in the UK.

Support Groups:

  1. ANAD (National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders)
  2. Eating Disorders Anonymous (EDA)
  3. Overeaters Anonymous (OA)
  4. The Body Positive
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The Addiction Cycle: What Are the 5 Stages of Addiction?

Addiction often follows a cycle with distinct stages. It’s repetitive in nature since the act of taking addictive drugs releases dopamine, which reinforces the behavior—causing repetition. 

As this cycle repeats, the likelihood of addiction grows until it’s realized. Thankfully, treatment works at each stage, whether you’ve just started or have been in active addiction for years. 

Stages of The Addiction Cycle

The stages of addiction typically involve initiating substance use, developing dependence, and eventually becoming addicted. This cycle can repeat through relapses, but it can also be broken with the proper support and intervention.

1: Initial Use

Your first time taking a substance counts as the initial use. This could be a beer on your 21st birthday or marijuana between classes in high school. You may consciously decide to take the substance or initiate it due to external factors like peer pressure and a desire to connect with others.

2: Regular Substance Use

After the first use, you may come back to the substance occasionally. These occasional uses can then become a regular part of your routine, like drinking every day after work instead of just during social events.

You may start to plan your day around substance use or start canceling plans that might keep you from it. 

3: Tolerance Development

As your use increases, you’ll grow more tolerant to the substance1 and its pleasurable effects. This means you need more, more often. 

Regular use means your brain receives a flood of dopamine. It can get so used to this, becoming tolerant, that it starts making less naturally2, which can mean you’ll need more of the substance to make up for the loss and take the substance more often to not experience a low.

4: Dependence Formation

You can become dependent on the substance to function without discomfort or unhappiness3, especially as your brain learns to make less dopamine and simply wait for more to come from the substance. 

Physical dependence shows when you feel sick without taking the substance. Your body starts using the substance to meet a sense of homeostasis, and if you stop taking it, you’ll likely feel sick. In particular, opioids can make you feel highly unwell if you stop taking them4 without a professional detox. Alcohol withdrawals5 can lead to tremors, hallucinations, and seizures.

5: Full-Blown Addiction

At this final stage, substance use fully dominates life. It becomes all you think about and what you feel you need to function. Along with feeling physically sick without it, you’ll experience cravings and urges to use the substance. Obtaining and taking more becomes as necessary as eating or sleeping, especially since addiction affects your judgment and decision-making skills3.

People in stage five may show signs of addiction in other areas of life, like having financial issues, losing their job, and having trouble with their relationships. 

The Role of Relapse in the Addiction Cycle

Relapses can trigger the start of another addiction cycle. They can also happen between stages, like tolerance development and dependence formation, when someone tries to stop their use but starts again.

Understanding Relapse

Relapses occur more often than you might think,6 and they’re a common part of the addiction cycle. They typically have a trigger related to your environment and/or emotional state. 

For example, if you’ve been sober a few weeks but meet a friend at a bar you used to go to, the environment could trigger an intense urge to drink that leads to relapse. Overwhelming stress or sadness can also lead to relapse as someone reaches for their old coping tool.

Relapse as a Learning Opportunity

Sometimes, you don’t know about a trigger until it happens. For example, you might unexpectedly realize scenes of drinking or drug use in a movie trigger an urge to take the substance, even though the depiction isn’t real. You might leave the theater feeling frustrated, uncomfortable, and disappointed in yourself—but you shouldn’t.

Now you know to avoid those types of movies. Even if the trigger led to a relapse, you’ve still gained a tool for your future recovery and sobriety. You gain the same learning opportunity from any relapse, regardless of its cause or trigger.

Preventing Relapse

Most people’s ideal recovery journey doesn’t include relapsing. It’s okay if it happens, but it’s also something you can proactively work to prevent. You may practice these skills in professional treatment, like joining a relapse prevention group in rehab. Therapy can teach you how to regulate your emotions and how you respond to them. You can also keep a few strategies in hand to mitigate a relapse before it happens.

  1. Learn a few grounding techniques to distance yourself from the negative emotions caused by a trigger. Here are some examples:
    1. Box breathing. Breathe in for 4 seconds, hold for 4 seconds, and breathe out for 4 seconds until you feel your mind and body calm.
    2. Urge surfing. This practice teaches you to “ride the wave” of an urge, showing you you’re capable of getting through them.
    3. Progressive muscle relaxation. You’ll start by tensing your muscles, holding the tension, then relaxing them. People often work from their toes to their head, tensing and relaxing before moving to the next muscle group, but you can take any direction. 
  2. Write down the trigger and how it made you feel. For example, you might say, I went out for dinner with a friend and I kept smelling the wine at the table next to us. I really wanted some and felt angry that I can’t anymore.
  3. Stay connected to professional support. Maintain regular contact with a therapist, counselor, or mentor. 
  4. Attend peer meetings focused on recovery, like the Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) meetings of the 12 Steps or secular SMART Recovery groups. 
  5. Stay mindful of your emotional landscape. Stressors at work, relationship conflicts, or big decisions can quickly build up and become overwhelming, even if they happen in the background. Being mindful of your emotions can help you know when you need to practice self-care or seek professional help.

Understanding the Signs and Symptoms of Addiction

Knowing how addiction looks is a key step to finding treatment—and recovery. You can look for these signs in someone you love or in yourself.

Identifying Initial Use Signs

Someone who’s started using substances may show signs of inebriation, like stumbling when they walk, slurring their words, or seeming spaced out. Hiding and spending more time alone can be a sign too, as this would keep other loved ones from noticing some of the more obvious signs.

You might notice your loved one going to bars more frequently or attending parties with drinking or drug use. As another example, maybe your spouse starts having a glass of wine every night after trying some at a restaurant.

Recognizing Symptoms of Escalating Use

As use escalates, you’ll likely notice signs like these:

  • They’re around less, spending more time procuring substances and taking them. Young adults especially may spend more and more evenings at parties or bars.
  • Acting secretive or making excuses for why they’re having more of the substance. For example, they might try to subtly refill their wine glass and, when caught, give an excuse as to why.
  • They start struggling with money, spending considerably less on their usual purchases or voicing their worries about paying bills.

Signs of Tolerance and Dependence

As someone’s substance use increases, so does their tolerance and physical dependence on the substance. Signs of this happening often include consuming more of the substance; more enough for you to notice. For example, one glass of wine might turn into one and a half, and then two in a relatively short amount of time. They may seem the same after two glasses as they did after one—that’s because their tolerance increased.

You might also notice they seem distracted and uncomfortable if they don’t have the substance regularly. As their dependence on it grows, they can feel sick, irritable, and unfocused until they have more.

Indicators of Addiction

Once the cycle reaches the addiction phase, you’ll likely notice all the signs from before grow in intensity. For example,

  • They spend more time away to find and take their substance and come down from its effects. 
  • Their struggles become more pronounced—money worries turn into missed payments and evictions. Trouble prioritizing work responsibilities deepens to job loss and unemployment. 
  • Their friend group changes, likely to include others who use the substance and can connect them to more of it. 

What may stick out most is this: they keep using despite consequences to themselves and others. They lose control of their ability to stop. Their reward system has rewired, combining with their physical dependency to create an overwhelming need for the substance. 

Triggers That Contribute to Addiction

Addiction doesn’t happen on a whim. It’s often triggered by something, like the environment you live in, stressors, and mental health conditions. 

Environmental Triggers

Where and how you grow up can contribute to addiction. If your environment gives you easy access to substances, is highly stressful, or includes others who use substances (and encourage or pressure you to, too), you’re more likely to develop an addiction.

Emotional Triggers

Mental health conditions, stress, and grief can all trigger the need for soothing and distraction. Drugs and alcohol can serve as a tool for self-medication, providing temporary relief from symptoms of depression, anxiety, trauma, and others. 

Social Influences

Substance use and addiction can become normalized by your social circle and culture. If everyone around you, whether friends or family, uses substances and struggles with addiction, you’re more likely to as well7. These influences can start the first stage of the cycle: initial use. When substance use is normalized and even a way you bond with others, it can progress through the 5 stages more quickly.

Treatment Strategies for the Addiction Cycle

You can break out of the addiction cycle at any stage. Professional treatment aims to treat both the physical and emotional aspects of addiction, helping you detox safely and process the underlying causes for addiction.

Detoxification Approaches

Detox is often the first step in addiction treatment. It’s the medical process of removing drugs and toxins from your body and bringing it back to homeostasis. Detox professionals may use medication-assisted treatment (MAT) to make the detox process safer and more comfortable.

Many rehabs offer detox as part of their residential programs, or you can detox at a hospital. Once your body is free of toxic substances, you can begin the emotional side of healing.

Therapeutic Interventions

Therapy addresses the root cause of addiction in 1:1, group, or family settings. Your therapist will work with you to uncover how your addiction developed and what purpose it serves in your life. Together, you’ll begin to heal past wounds and learn coping tools to use in the future. Common therapies for addiction include

  • Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), which teaches you to catch and correct untrue thoughts or beliefs before they lead to distress. You’ll learn to challenge unhelpful beliefs and black-and-white thinking that can make you feel worse.
  • Dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) reflects CBT in some ways, but differs in how you respond to emotions and the beliefs you have. It focuses on validating your emotions and experiences and altering how you react to them—like going for a run instead of drinking.
  • Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) helps heal trauma and lower the effects of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). EMDR uses eye-tracking as you recount (verbally or in your head) what happened to you. By following an object back and forth and busying your mind, the memories lose their emotional impact and can be easier to process in just a few sessions.
  • Individual therapy happens with just you and your therapist. You may learn a variety of skills from CBT, DBT, and other approaches during your sessions. You’ll likely explore key issues and develop coping strategies to use once you’re out of treatment.
  • Group therapy can also use skills specific to CBT or DBT, but in a group setting. For example, you may learn a new way to manage a negative emotion and then practice it with others in your group through an imaginary scenario.

Aftercare and Support Systems

Aftercare contributes to an effective recovery journey8. It supports your recovery after you leave more intensive treatment, like residential rehab. Aftercare can include sober living, ongoing therapy sessions, and continued contact with staff from your treatment center. Many rehabs also have strong alumni communities with events, 12-Step groups, and more to keep patients connected and supported long after they leave treatment. 

Importance of Prevention and Early Intervention

Early intervention can be one of the most effective forms of ‘treatment,’ but preventing substance use altogether offers the greatest crop of benefits. Here’s how that can happen.

Preventing Initial Use

Education on addiction and the risks of substance use can encourage people to not take substances in the first place. Open discussions on addiction, especially with children, can teach the realities of substance use. When people know more about it, they can make informed decisions about their use.

Early Intervention Techniques

The earlier an intervention happens, the less likely substance use is to cause addiction8. Studies have shown early interventions from people like doctors, nurses, or counselors during routine appointments can “educate and motivate many individuals who are misusing substances to understand and acknowledge their risky behavior and to reduce their substance use.”

Loved ones can also intervene early and motivate change. This could look like a casual conversation, or something more structured and planned. It depends on your situation and how far their use has progressed.

Breaking The Addiction Cycle

The addiction cycle isn’t a vortex whirlpool-ing you to despair. It can be broken at any point, no matter how many times you’ve spun through it or how long you’ve been spinning. Early intervention, professional addiction treatment, and relapse-prevention strategies offering a mooring line of hope.
You can connect with addiction treatment providers on Recovery.com, comparing prices, amenities, treatment services, and more to find the best treatment for you.

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How Traumatic Invalidation Leads to Personality Disorders

Invalidation takes many forms, from obvious “I don’t believe you”s to more subtle reactions, like not listening or telling you how your experience should feel. When someone doesn’t accept or believe your experiences and emotions, it invalidates them and can lead to numerous psychological effects, including personality disorders.

Invalidation that extends over a long period of time with intensity is considered traumatic, as it alters your perception of self and others. Traumatic invalidation often occurs in childhood from caregivers, and its effects can last well into adulthood.

But you can learn how to validate your experiences and heal from the results of traumatic invalidation, one day at a time.

Understanding Traumatic Invalidation

Traumatic invalidation stems from intentional or unintentional emotional abuse, most often in childhood1. It happens when a parent or other caregiver repeatedly invalidates their child’s experiences or emotions. This can happen from childhood into adulthood, depending on if the parent or caregiver recognizes and wants to change their behavior. A few examples of traumatic invalidation include:

  • A parent acting disgusted or disappointed when their child cries or shows emotion. The parent makes it known their response isn’t valid or acceptable.
  • Minimizing someone’s negative experiences by saying, “It could be worse,” “At least it’s not…” or challenging it with something they went through that they believe is worse.
  • Berating and name-calling, like “You’re being such a baby about this.”
  • Villianizing emotions and sadness by saying “You’re always crying” or “I’ll give you something to cry about.”
  • Facial expressions, purposeful ignoring, and body language can be more subtle forms of invalidation, but equally hurtful.

Why Do People Do It?

Many people don’t intend to invalidate someone’s feelings and experiences. For parents especially, they may do it by accident since they don’t know how else to communicate or have their emotional availability lowered due to a mental health condition or stressor. But its effects remain regardless of intent.

Some parents, friends, or romantic partners may use traumatic invalidation as a means of control and harm. For instance, they might be the abuser themselves, dismissing or denying the victim’s experiences to prevent them from seeking help or breaking free from their influence. This form of invalidation not only erodes self-esteem but also creates doubt about your reality, making it harder to recognize the abuse and reach out for support.

Traumatic invalidation can also stem from racism and prejudice towards minorities2, like LGBTQ+ people, women, and people of color. These groups are less likely to have their experiences and perceptions believed. This can lead to microaggressions and ongoing stress for minorities.

Connection to Personality Disorders

Traumatic invalidation has been connected most strongly to borderline personality disorder (BPD)3. This means children who experience traumatic invalidation were found more likely to develop BPD, plus other cluster B personality disorders. Here’s a quick overview of those and BPD:

  • BPD’s symptoms4 include an intense fear of abandonment and efforts to prevent it, uncontrollable emotions, unstable relationships, and suicidality. Someone with BPD fluctuates from extreme emotions and seeing people as all good or all bad, which can start and end relationships quickly.
  • Narcissistic personality disorder’s (NPD) symptoms5 include entitlement, lack of empathy, grandiosity, and a need for excessive and constant admiration. Someone with NPD struggles to function if they’re not the center of attention, as their sense of self-worth depends on it.
  • Antisocial personality disorder’s (APD) symptoms6 include lying to, manipulating, or harming others for personal gain or pleasure without remorse. Someone with APD is generally prone to violence and criminal behavior. 

Other personality disorders fall into clusters B, C, and A7. Cluster C includes anxious personalities and cluster A includes eccentric, like schizotypal. Traumatic invalidation generally correlates to cluster B.

Traumatic Invalidation as the Starting Point

Not every case of BPD or other personality disorder starts with traumatic invalidation, but it often does. BPD in particular, while it doesn’t have a primary cause, often stems from emotional instability in childhood. This could include traumatic invalidation, emotional abuse, and other traumas, like physical or sexual abuse.

Traumatic invalidation can lead to low self-worth, an unstable sense of self, and difficulties with forming and maintaining relationships. These effects can form the blocks of a personality disorder like BPD.

Traumatic invalidation often happens in childhood. Similarly, personality disorders typically develop in adolescence, showing more prominently after age 18. Signs of traumatic invalidation may first show through symptoms of a personality disorder in later teen years.

Psychological Mechanisms at Play

Repeated invalidation can cause critical damage to self esteem and personal identity. To cope with the confusion, shame, and disorientation caused by a parent or caregiver dismissing emotions and experiences, someone may use substances. This can numb emotions and connect people to others who use substances, giving them a sense of belonging and community lacked in childhood. 

Similarly, teens may engage in a sport, art form, or academic perfection to find another source of validation and support. While the activity itself may not be harmful, reliance on it can damage their sense of self and self-worth.

The Rocky Road of Relationships

Traumatic invalidation can make relationships, romantic or otherwise, a confusing and daunting experience. Difficulty with relationships is a hallmark of personality disorders8 like BPD, too. 

After traumatic invalidation, someone may intensely pursue relationships and use them to dictate their identity. Or, they may avoid relationships since that’s what caused them harm as a child—people can seem unreliable, mean, and untrustworthy after traumatic invalidation. Unstable relationships can deepen their sense of invalidation and further shroud their sense of self. 

Treatment and Therapeutic Approaches

Professional treatment can heal the effects of traumatic invalidation by reshaping how someone views themselves and their emotions. Therapy can re-validate someone’s experiences and feelings, helping old wounds heal and their true identity come to light. 

For example, a therapist trained in healing traumatic invalidation can help their client realize

  • Their emotions, past and present, are real, valid, and important. And then, how does that change how they feel about themselves?
  • What happened wasn’t okay or deserved. But healing is.
  • They don’t need other people to decide how they feel and what they’re allowed to feel. 
  • They can challenge others’ perceptions and feelings with truths about themselves.

Treating traumatic invalidation can also address a personality disorder. Those with personality disorders often stay in treatment throughout the ups and downs of their life, learning how to navigate their symptoms and develop the skills needed to maintain positive relationships. Their therapist may use dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) which was specifically developed for BPD; it helps people shift from black-and-white thinking and regulate their emotions before they harm themselves or others.

Preventing Traumatic Invalidation: Countering with Truth

As an adult, you have the opportunity to challenge invalidation from your parents or other sources, like friends, partners, or other family members. Their opinions and reactions don’t define you or what you experience. 

If you sense someone is trying, purposefully or not, to invalidate you, you can challenge the feeling either to yourself or out loud in conversation. Here’s what you can reflect on:

  • Is this coming as helpful feedback to offer me perspective, or to minimize my experience and emotions?
  • What gives this person the authority to challenge my experiences?
  • If they have a different perspective, are they leaving room for what I believe is true and treating my emotions with respect?

Conversation Examples

This is how using this truth-focused approach in a conversation could go:

  1. “That’s not at all what happened. She wasn’t trying to say that; you shouldn’t have got so upset.”

“It’s what I experienced, and how the experience made me feel.”

  1. “You’re taking this too seriously. If you just tried to relax more or calm down you wouldn’t feel like this.”

“No, this is how I feel and it’s okay to feel it. My experience was upsetting to me.”  

  1. “That’s not true. You should have done _____.”

“Since you weren’t there and haven’t experienced this yourself, I’ll believe my truth.”

Healing With Support and Community

Traumatic invalidation effects don’t last forever; nor do personality disorders with proper treatment. You can learn to validate your experiences, feel secure in how you feel, and use your community to gain new perspectives—delivered with respect. 
As iron sharpens iron, so you and your peers can learn and heal together. Using Recovery.com you can also find a rehab for personality disorders and compare prices, locations, amenities, and more.

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At a Glance: The Fentanyl Crisis in America

Headlines about fentanyl being ‘a crisis’ increasingly pepper local and national news outlets. 

At first thought, a drug may not seem like a crisis in the same way floodings, pandemics, and wars do. But fentanyl has thoroughly earned its label as a crisis, and this article will delve into why—plus, how you can keep yourself and others safe.

What Is Fentanyl?

Definition and Uses

Fentanyl is a synthetic opioid1, deadly at extremely small doses (less than a couple grains of salt). In the medical setting, opioids and its synthetic versions, like fentanyl, are used to manage pain. After surgery, for example, most patients receive a few days’ worth of opioid pain medications since they’re much more potent than NSAIDS like ibuprofen. Small doses of prescribed fentanyl can relieve after-surgery pain and pain from chronic conditions like cancer. 

The medical uses for fentanyl aren’t why it’s become a crisis. It’s outside this setting where people in America lose their lives daily.

Dealers of drugs like cocaine, heroin, and meth often cut the pure substance with fentanyl to make it stronger and more addictive. In theory, this means their customers will buy more because they become addicted faster and increase their tolerance. They’ll keep coming back and buy in higher quantities.

Potency and Risks

A deadly dose of fentanyl fits on the tip of a pencil. It’s 100x more potent than morphine and 50x stronger than heroin1. Anyone who’s unfamiliar with its potency and how much they can safely take runs an extremely high risk of overdose. Those with more experience taking fentanyl and a higher tolerance for opioids run a lower risk of overdose. Most overdoses happen by accident, with the consumer unaware the drug they took had any fentanyl in it. Or, they take the drug after a period of abstinence, and their usual dose overwhelms their body and causes an overdose.

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A lethal dose of fentanyl, photo from the DEA.

Fentanyl-laced drugs kill people of all ages and experience levels. A first-time drug user could die as easily as someone who’s been taking heroin for decades. Even ‘safe’ drugs like synthetic marijuana have been found laced with fentanyl2 or other opioids, leading to accidental dosing. Some may also choose to mix fentanyl with other drugs, like adding it to a stimulant to make a speedball. 

Shockingly, the Drug Enforcement Administration (DEA) found 7 out of 10 confiscated pills had a lethal dose of fentanyl3, over 2mg. 

Causes of The Fentanyl Crisis

Fentanyl’s deadly potency and the way people often have no idea they’re taking it (and subsequently overdose) makes it an urgent health crisis in America.

Illegal Production and Distribution

Fentanyl has made its way into more and more drugs as dealers clamor to up their profits and get their customers hooked. Clandestine labs make fentanyl, which cartels and other illicit networks then distribute to reach drug dealers. It may be cut into pure drugs before it’s given to the dealers, or the dealers may use it as a cutting agent themselves. Sometimes, the dealers aren’t even aware what they’re selling has fentanyl in it. 

It’s not legal to make fentanyl on your own, purchase it, or sell it—you can only take it legally if you have a prescription. Getting a prescription is also the only way you can know the pill (or other substance) contains what you think it does, and in the correct dosage. Even someone who regularly takes opiates and considers themselves pretty tolerant to its effects can experience a fatal fentanyl overdose, since they can’t test the potency or know for sure how much fentanyl is in what they’re taking.

Prescription Practices

Some people have turned to fentanyl as a cheaper alternative to opioids. The heavy-handed use of opioids for pain relief largely contributes to this, as people can quickly become addicted to the opioids they were prescribed after a surgery or other short-term need. Once their prescription runs out, they face several options: buy it illegally from drug dealers (with no insurance coverage), try to find another doctor that will prescribe it, or go for the cheaper alternative, fentanyl. 

Accessibility and Affordability

Fentanyl is easier to access than pure drugs like cocaine, heroin, and prescription opioids. It’s also cheaper, which can drive people to make it their substance of choice. The lower costs also encourage drug dealers to supplement pure drugs with fentanyl, saving them money by creating a drug that has less of the pure substance but is still ‘just as strong.’ 

Impact of The Fentanyl Crisis

Overdose Deaths

Overall, fatal drug overdoses have gone down4. But fentanyl-caused deaths continue to rise and contribute more and more to the total death rate, making fentanyl the primary cause of drug overdose deaths5 in America (not including deaths caused by alcohol).  

In 2022, 76,226 out of 108,000 reported overdose deaths were due to fentanyl4, per the Center for Disease Control. That dropped to 74,702 in 2023. Synthetic opioids like fentanyl kill 150-300+ people each day. That’s the equivalent of a commercial plane crashing and killing everyone inside, every day. If that were happening, could you imagine the outcry? 

Public Health

People who experience an overdose need medical care as soon as possible. Naloxone (or Narcan) reverses overdoses for opioids and synthetic opioids like fentanyl. With fentanyl use and overdoses going up, emergency rooms and other treatment centers receive an influx of patients. Other non-deadly effects of fentanyl, like organ damage, also require medical care. This can strain the health system nationwide.

Social and Economic Consequences

Using opioids, synthetic or natural, contributes to economic issues through workplace accidents6, not going into work due to substance use, quitting work, and leaving gaps in the workforce due to deaths and resignations. Workplaces and businesses overall function less efficiently with these challenges, contributing to a poorer economic state.

Taking a substance can change how you behave, which can lead to criminal activities and legal consequences. Illegally procuring fentanyl can also get you into trouble. These consequences put strain on the judicial system and can affect the workplace through firings.

Efforts to Combat The Crisis

Many organizations, state-level and federal, are actively working to uproot the fentanyl crisis. And thankfully, they and others have had some success.

Law Enforcement Actions

Law enforcement’s primary role in stopping the fentanyl crisis isn’t to arrest people who take fentanyl; it’s to stop its distribution and production. Most of America’s fentanyl comes from China7, Mexico, and more recently, India. It’s smuggled through America’s borders through craftier and craftier ways, making it harder to catch. But advanced technologies, searching techniques, and more stringent rules vastly reduce the total amount of fentanyl that could make its way in.

American law enforcement has collaborated with Mexican officials to find and shut down fentanyl labs in Mexico, often operated by cartels. Recent collaborations with China aim to stem the flow of fentanyl there8. The United States Drug Enforcement Administration (DEA) focuses much of their operations on reducing fentanyl’s flow into the U.S., preventing over 381 million lethal doses of fentanyl3 from reaching consumers. This includes arresting distributors and drug dealers. Those who buy fentanyl illegally may also face legal consequences.

Public Health Initiatives

While public health organizations and programs can’t make arrests or shut down fentanyl labs, they can spread education and awareness on the dangers of fentanyl and its rising prevalence. Proper education on where it’s found, what happens if you take it, and what to do in the case of an overdose can prevent people from taking it entirely, and save their lives if they do.

The Center for Disease Control (CDC) has a Stop Overdose campaign, which offers education on fentanyl and its dangers. Similarly, the DEA’s One Pill Can Kill campaign highlights fentanyl’s dangers and the public’s need to carefully weigh the risks before taking illicit drugs. It also reinforces the safe practice of only taking pills prescribed to you, as buying pills elsewhere could mean you take a counterfeit laced with fentanyl. 

Many cities, universities, corporations, and commuting hubs are joining the Naloxone distribution project (funded by SAMHSA) to place Naloxone kits in easily accessible areas. Think of the fire extinguishers you see in a glass case—that’s the hope for Naloxone kits.

Treatment And Support Programs

Addiction treatment from medical and therapeutic professionals can save lives. Attending treatment as early as possible can prevent addiction from worsening and leading to a potential overdose. Many addiction treatment centers specialize in treating fentanyl addiction, offering services like detox, residential treatment, and outpatient levels of care.

Treatment programs often provide a blend of medical and therapeutic care, with 1:1 and group therapies focused on underlying conditions and building coping tools for relapse prevention. Evidence-based and holistic therapies form personalized treatment programs to comprehensively address fentanyl addiction.

Preventative Measures

Prescription Regulations

Since opioid use can lead to fentanyl use, regulating opioid prescriptions can lead to fewer mishandled prescriptions, opioid addictions, and fentanyl reliance. The recent settlement cases against big pharmaceutical companies have made other entities, including the general public, more aware that opioids aren’t always necessary, and that even prescription medications can lead to addiction.

In 2016, the Center for Disease Control (CDC) released the CDC Guideline for Prescribing Opioids for Chronic Pain which details 12 recommendations for safe, effective opioid prescribing. The guidelines are meant to reduce addiction and overdose rates while still prioritizing the patient’s health and well-being. When used properly, these guidelines can save and improve lives.

Some states put caps on the amount of prescription opioids9 for acute pain (like after a surgery) to 7 or less. Other states mandate Naloxone with each opioid prescription with risk factors like a high dose or if it’s prescribed alongside a benzodiazepine. 

Safe Use and Harm Reduction

Harm-reduction strategies for fentanyl use include distributing fentanyl test strips10, Naloxone, and clean syringe needles to reduce the spread of HIV and other diseases. Fentanyl strips test substances for fentanyl, which can make drug use safer and reduce overdoses. 

Community and Education

The DEA aims to partner with more and more local communities11 to educate people of all ages and backgrounds on the dangers of fentanyl. They’re calling it Operation Engage—educating, broadening awareness, and creating a sense of community in the effort to stop fentanyl overdoses. 

More schools and businesses have begun incorporating educational material on fentanyl to support these efforts. For those in recovery from fentanyl use, local peer support groups offer community and connection.

Curing a Crisis 

New initiatives and harm-reduction strategies can’t bring back the lives lost from fentanyl, but they can slow the spread and eventually mitigate the crisis. America and other countries see a future where fentanyl overdose deaths no longer make the news—because they’re not happening at all.
Treatment marks a big step towards this goal. You can use Recovery.com to find a fentanyl rehab and see photos, reviews, insurance information, and more.