Stepping into What’s Next: Starting the New Year with Intention

The start of every new year can bring a variety of emotions—hope, curiosity, and sometimes a little bit (or a lot) of pressure to make changes.

For anyone in recovery, whether that’s recovery from addiction, trauma, or simply unhealthy habits, the new year can feel like a fresh start. But it can also be a reminder of the work ahead, which can be intimidating. 

Can we really start the new year in a hopeful and healthy place?

Can we really make lasting changes?

I firmly believe that we can. I think that instead of viewing the new year as a moment for drastic resolutions or impossible goals that seem out of reach, why not see it as an opportunity to take a step forward? One step at a time.

In Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change the authors share that change is not linear. Change happens “over time. With stops and starts, along a crooked line. With practice. With ambivalence […]. When the tradeoffs seems worth it. With a little help–sometimes a lot of help–from friends and family. With anguish. With effort. With joy.”

Progress in recovery isn’t about perfection—it’s about small, meaningful actions that add up over time. We can start the new year with intentional change.

How Far Have We Come?

Before going head first into change, it might be helpful to take a look back. Not focusing on the negative or the struggles, but on the moments we show up for ourselves. The days when we made even the smallest choices that have moved us toward a better place.

Did we set boundaries that protected our peace? Maybe we made healthier choices, even when it felt difficult. Or perhaps we simply stayed in the game, even when we felt like giving up would be easier. These moments matter, and they are the foundation for what comes next. We need to celebrate the small wins along the way as we prepare to make changes for the future.

Why Do Resolutions Often Fail?

The “New Year, New Me” mentality is everywhere. But it can be a trap. Recovery is already a deeply personal and intentional process and adding extra pressure to overhaul your entire life by February isn’t always helpful.

“Change is a process, not an event.”

Instead of resolutions, can we consider setting intentions for change? Intentions are more flexible and focused on the journey rather than the outcome or strict timeline. They are, in a sense, systems for living. As James Clear notes in his book Atomic Habits: “You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.”

For example:

Instead of “I’ll exercise every day,” try “I’ll move my body in ways that feel good.”

Instead of “I’ll quit all my bad habits immediately,” try “I’ll work on one area at a time.”

Instead of “I’ll fix everything,” try “I’ll approach challenges with patience and self-compassion.” 

Focusing on more fluid systems of change can be a more compassionate way to approach change in the new year.

Celebrating the Journey

If there’s one thing recovery shows us, it’s that we are not meant to do this, including change, alone. People need connection and a healthy community for accountability and support. 

One powerful way to create connection is by reaching out to people who share your journey. A benefit of the internet is that there is an abundant of ways to do that. This could mean joining a recovery group, finding a mentor, or even just spending time with friends who make you feel revitalized and who are also committed to making positive changes in the new year. If in-person options are not accessible, online communities can be just as meaningful. Recovery thrives on shared experiences and mutual understanding.

Re-imagining What’s Meaningful in the New Year

The start of a new year is a perfect time to reimagine what’s meaningful and decide what changes you want to make and why. Maybe past traditions or routines don’t feel like they fit anymore. Maybe you are ready to take your recovery to the next level. Maybe you don’t identify as being “in recovery,” but you want to choose a substance-free life for other reasons, including health reasons. 

Think about what makes you feel alive. Is it spending time in nature? Learning a new skill? Reflecting on your goals? These new changes don’t have to be grand or complicated—they just have to feel right for you.

For example, you could start a weekly ritual of journaling about what you’re grateful for or reflecting on your progress. Or maybe you dedicate time each month to trying something new, like a hobby you’ve always been curious about. Playing guitar. Taking up knitting. Rock climbing. Writing. Cooking. The options are endless. Introducing new changes can anchor you and give you something to look forward to.

Stepping Into What’s Next

As we all move into this new year, carry this with you: recovery isn’t just about leaving things behind. It’s about building something new. It’s about finding purpose, creating connection, and continuing to make changes, even when it’s hard.

You don’t have to have it all figured out. You don’t have to be perfect. What matters is that you are here, willing to take the next step.

Let this year be one of progress, intention, and self-compassion.

Coping with Loneliness During the Holidays and Finding Connection and Joy: Caroline Beidler

The holiday season is often depicted as a time of celebration, family gatherings, and festive cheer. But for many, it can be a period of deep loneliness

Have you ever heard the phrase, “no man is an island?” 

It was penned in the 1600s by English poet, John Donne. He had lived through some stark, tragic times including a plague. Sounds rough, right? This tortured poet knew hardship. 

Have you been there? Maybe you are feeling the loneliness setting in now as the holidays are drawing close or coming to an end. Perhaps you have a bit more comfort than a 16th-century poet, but chances are you can connect with the feeling of being out on an island alone. 

In my own personal journey of recovery, there have been times when loneliness threatened to drown me, especially around the holidays. My substance use disorder pushed me further away from people, yet my heart needed and longed for connection. It was a cycle of pain that bred feelings of isolation for years, although I desperately longed for the type of community that I have since found in recovery.

Loneliness during the holidays can feel especially challenging, as all of the Target ads show glittering people with glistening smiles. The world reflects images of perfect families, joyful reunions, and hot cups of shared cocoa. Yet, loneliness does not have to define our experiences this holiday season or anytime throughout the year. We can create meaningful connections and find joy even during the most difficult times.

The Hidden Struggles of the Holidays

For many, the expectations surrounding the holidays can feel overwhelming. We see images on social media or hear stories of families coming together, and it can be easy to feel like we don’t measure up. Like our stories don’t matter. For those dealing with loss, whether from the death of a loved one to substance use or the end of a relationship, the absence can be especially painful.

The holidays can also trigger old wounds or stir up grief, making us more aware of who or what we are missing. In recovery, the season may present challenges as we balance sobriety with social gatherings (often associated with substance use) or family dynamics that can be emotionally painful and make us want to find the nearest deserted island.

What’s important to remember is that loneliness is not permanent. There are ways to address how we are feeling and even actions that we can take. 

Recognizing Loneliness as an Opportunity for Self-Reflection

What if we viewed loneliness as an opportunity for self-reflection or self-awareness? Quiet, still moments can have a purpose, too. We can think about our goals for the new year, explore a new hobby, journal, or meditate on what truly brings us peace.

Practices like journaling can help us to process challenging emotions and gain clarity. If you’re struggling with loss or grief, expressing your thoughts on paper can be a powerful tool. Writing is like having a deep heart-talk with ourselves. For me personally, I know that sometimes in writing I come to discover my thoughts, as if I am meeting them out for coffee for the first time.

Additionally, consider making a list of gratitude. This simple act can shift our perspective, helping us focus on what we have, not what is missing. If we are in recovery, chances are we have had the chance to be irritated by someone telling us to “write a gratitude list.” It might be irritating at times, but this is suggested because it works. Gratitude practices have been shown to improve mental health by increasing optimism and fostering mindfulness. 

Finding New Ways to Connect

We can connect in new ways during the holiday season if our families of origin or other friends are not healthy people we can be around or if we find ourselves feeling lonely for any reason. Feeling isolated during the holidays can also highlight the important need for connection. But connection doesn’t always have to come in the form of traditional family gatherings. There are many ways to reach out and form bonds with others during this time.

1. Reach Out to Healthy Friends: Get in touch with people you trust. When we are feeling lonely, sometimes that phone is heavy. It is hard to pick up the phone to text or call someone that may be a support for us. But even a simple phone call, text message, or video chat can make a difference. Let them know you’re thinking of them, and you might find that they’re experiencing similar feelings of loneliness or isolation.

2. Join a Support or Recovery Group: If you’re in recovery or dealing with grief this season or any time during the year, connecting with others who have been there can be transformative. There are many options for support that move us from our islands and into spaces where others may be feeling the same things we are feeling or who have experienced the same things. A safe space, either in-person or virtual, can help us find encouragement and the support we need to feel less alone.

3. Volunteer: One of the best ways to overcome feelings of loneliness is by helping others. Volunteering or being of service allows us to connect with our community and experience the joy of giving. Whether it’s serving meals at a shelter or church, helping at a local recovery community center or treatment center, or participating in other community events, showing up for others can help us feel less alone and more a part of something outside of ourselves.

Building Meaningful Traditions for Yourself

Sometimes, loneliness is exacerbated by a sense of loss or the absence of past traditions. Maybe your memory of holidays brings back trauma you experienced as a child. This holiday season, consider creating new traditions that reflect your values and recovery now. It’s exciting to think that we can create new ways to honor the seasons that are healthy and life-giving.

For example, you might start a tradition of reflecting on the past year and setting goals for the upcoming one. You could create a ritual of lighting candles each evening, journaling, or learning a new hobby you enjoy playing guitar or painting. New traditions can provide a sense of comfort and continuity, regardless of external circumstances. They can help us to embrace the present.

Seeking Professional Help if Needed

If loneliness feels overwhelming and is affecting your ability to function, it might be time to reach out for professional support or treatment. Addiction treatment can help you or a loved one manage difficult emotions and feelings of loneliness and help provide healthy coping strategies and tools.

How to Handle Holiday Triggers, Family Dynamics, and Stay True to Your Recovery: Caroline Beidler

It’s beginning to look a lot like…the holidays. For those of us in or seeking addiction and mental health recovery, this time of year can bring up fond memories and important reminders of why we want to be sober.

This time of year, however, can also bring up family drama, unresolved trauma, and a whole host of triggers that can make November through the first of the year feel almost unbearable.

The holiday season is a time for joy, connection, and celebration. For many of us in recovery, it can also trigger anxiety, emotional strain, and even the urge to revert to old coping mechanisms. Family dynamics, past memories, and the social pressures of the season can become overwhelming, especially when recovery feels fragile or uncertain.

The good news is that while you can’t control the actions of others or the triggers that may surface, you have complete control over how you respond. There are things that we can do to not only set healthy boundaries but also protect our recovery in a way that promotes inner peace and well-being during the entire year, not just 

when… the weather outside is frightful.

Understand Your Triggers

Just like recovery can be a unique, individualized process, so too are the triggers or challenges that may come. These can be different and can include things that might seem obvious: going to a bar, a favorite liquor store or dealer’s house, or another person, place, or thing that is associated with our using days.

Triggers can also be unexpected, such as a smell, taste, or song. Sometimes, painful memories or temptations surface when we least expect them, in the most unsuspecting ways.

The holidays can also bring a sense of nostalgia for many of us surrounding our substance use. Family gatherings can be like a boxing ring with tensions high, old patterns surfacing, and even substances like alcohol present that offer an easy “out” for those uncomfortable feelings and emotions.

Especially when our loved ones don’t understand what recovery is or if they struggle with their own substance use challenges.

For some of us in recovery, triggers might include:

Unhealthy family dynamics: Loved ones who don’t understand our journey, or speak and act in stigmatizing or exclusionary ways may unintentionally (or intentionally) bring up uncomfortable, hurtful things like past behavior. You may even have to dodge offers for a drink or another substance.

Holiday expectations: Think Clark Griswold from one of my all-time favorite Christmas movies. The pressure to recreate the perfect holiday season may amplify tensions, feelings of stress and guilt, or even loneliness, which can wreak havoc with our mental health, which might already feel fragile.

Old traditions: One of my favorite past traditions around the holidays was isolating. I would show up for the meal and then bolt as soon as I could. Whether it’s binge eating, drinking, or other “old traditions” that may be tough to let go of, what is easy or comfortable can feel tempting when we are navigating the stress of the season.

Acknowledging, understanding, and being on guard against these triggers is the first step in being mindful of holidays in recovery. Whether you have a tough time believing it yet or not, the holidays don’t have to be a season of stress—they can become a time for deepening your self-awareness and nurturing your recovery.

Practice Boundary Setting

At its core, setting boundaries is about protecting our space. Our hearts, minds, physical selves, and spirits. 

Boundaries are about recognizing what feels safe for us and taking action (even when it’s tough) to ensure our well-being is prioritized and respected. When we think of boundaries, we often think of them as walls, but in reality, they’re more like shields that allow us to continue living and engaging with the world, but on our own terms.

Healthy boundaries let you engage in the holidays without compromising your values, your recovery, or your peace of mind. They aren’t about creating conflict, instead they are about protecting our peace, mental health, recovery

So how can we create boundaries with intention this holiday season?

Say “No” with Love

Boundaries also involve the art of saying no. It’s easy to feel guilty or pressured into attending every event or meeting every expectation, but the truth is, you don’t owe anyone an explanation for protecting your peace. Saying “no” isn’t selfish—it’s a form of self-care.

If a holiday gathering feels overwhelming, it’s okay to skip it. You don’t need to be everywhere or do everything. 

It might sound silly, but you can practice saying no. Sometimes this means sending a text instead of calling so that you can firmly state your “no” without anyone trying to argue or dissuade you. 

What matters is that you’re being true to your values and protecting your recovery. 

If someone does pressure you, or pushes back on the boundary you set, you can still respond in a kind, but firm way: 

“I’m choosing to rest tonight, but I appreciate the invite.”

“This doesn’t work for me today. Let’s get together for lunch another time.”

“Right now, I’m not able to attend. Thanks for offering.”

Remember, you can say no with love. A friend once told me that most people aren’t concerned about you, they are more concerned about themselves. We are also not responsible for other people’s feelings or expectations. We can control what we can which is our own mental health and recovery.

Prepare for Holiday Challenges

Another way to stay true to our recovery during the holiday season is to prepare for the challenges before they arise. Before that family gathering that is keeping you up at night,, take some time to meditate on what is important to you. What are your values? What are your limits?  What are my non-negotiables? 

What situations, people, or places tend to trigger discomfort, stress, or temptation?

Once you’ve identified your boundaries, communicate them clearly with your family or close friends. Be assertive about what you need to feel safe—whether it’s saying no to alcohol, limiting certain conversations, or avoiding particular gatherings. Assertiveness is key. It’s okay to stand firm in your decisions, even if others may not understand them.

For example, if a family member offers you a drink, you can politely but firmly respond with: “I’m in recovery, so I don’t drink anymore. Thanks for understanding.” Setting that boundary may feel uncomfortable at first, but remember—your well-being is the priority.

Shift Your Perspective

Mindset is an integral part of the recovery process as we continue to heal. As we navigate the season, we can focus on having a recovery mindset. Instead of seeing boundaries as barriers or limitations, we can view them as tools that enable us to live with greater freedom. Boundaries are not walls that keep us isolated. There is a surprising and welcome joy that comes when we live true to our values, when we love ourselves too.

We can also view the holidays as a time when we can create new traditions and memories—ones that honor our recovery, uphold our well-being. Some of my favorite holiday times now is when I can create new experiences with my family: Decorating the tree sober, hiking in the woods, making ginger bread house, going to our church children’s Christmas pageant rehearsals. These moments can be opportunities to build new associations, replacing old triggers, tensions, and stress with what the season is really about.

Stay True to Our Recovery

This holiday season, let’s take time to reflect on how we can stay true to our recovery.

  • What triggers can we understand and address in new ways?
  • How can we practice saying “no” with love?
  • When can preparing for holiday challenges help prevent more struggles?
  • How can shifting perspective and having a recovery mindset help us enjoy the season in new ways?

We have the joy and honor of creating new holiday memories that reflect our values of recovery. This time of year does not have to be a time of stress or a recurrence of use. With support, we can take positive action to not only handle the struggles of the season but also come to appreciate and experience the joys in new ways.

Sleeping Pills Misuse and Addiction

Sleeping pills help people get a good night’s sleep. But on the other side of the pillow is a potential for dependence and addiction.

Following prescription guidelines and staying in communication with your prescribing doctor can mitigate the risks of addiction, as can tapering off sleep medications as soon as you can. If you or someone you love develop an addiction to them, you have resources for healing.

Types of Sleeping Medications

Some sleeping medications you can buy over-the-corner, like melatonin and sleep aids with doxylamine or diphenhydramine (the active ingredient in Benadryl). These medications aren’t likely to cause addiction, though you can get used to your starting dose and need more and more to feel tired—signifying you’ve built a tolerance.

Prescribed sleeping pills are used to treat insomnia1, which is a sleep disorder that makes it difficult to fall asleep, stay asleep, or both. Behavioral treatments (therapy) can also treat insomnia by addressing what’s keeping you up, like stress, trauma, or racing thoughts related to a condition like attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).

Here are some common prescription sleeping pills:

  • Ambien
  • Lunesta
  • Sonata
  • Belsomra
  • Dayvigo

Sleeping pills broadly fall into these categories: sedative-hypnotics, benzodiazepines, and antidepressants, since some antidepressants have sedative effects. 

Statistics of Sleeping Pill Misuse and Addiction

Many people struggle with sleep, either in response to a stressor or chronically. A study by the Center for Disease Control (CDC)2 found these statistics in 2020:

  1. 8.4% of American adults took sleeping pills every day or most days over the past month.
    1. 6.3% took sleeping pills every day.
  2. Taking sleeping pills becomes more likely with age, from 5.6% in young adults to 11.9% in those 65 and older.
  3. While the percentage of people who become addicted to sleeping pills isn’t known yet, scientists have estimated an addiction percentage of nearly 20% for benzodiazepines3, which are often used as short-term sleeping pills.

Dangers of Sleeping Pill Misuse and Addiction

Using any medication outside its prescription guidelines can come with dangers, but they can be especially prevalent for sleeping medications due to their sedative effects.

Physical Dangers

Since sleeping pills sedate people, taking too many at once can dangerously enhance those effects. You may sleep much longer than intended, find it extremely difficult to wake up, or in extreme cases, die from your central nervous system slowing too much. Overdosing can lead to a coma and heart failure or stopped breathing.

If you think you or someone else has taken too many sleeping pills, call 911 for emergency medical care or contact Poison Control.

Emotional Dangers

Becoming reliant on anything, sleeping pills included, can lead to anxiety and an overall worsening of mental health conditions. If you can’t take the pills, you may become too anxious to sleep, leading to a cycle of use even if you want to stop. Tapering can help with this.

Depending on which kind of sleeping pill you take, like an antidepressant versus a hypnotic, you could also experience new or worsening mental health conditions as a side effect of the medication.

Harm to Relationships

Addiction can alter priorities, making substance use more important than spending time with loved ones and maintaining relationships, personal and professional. This can damage those relationships over time.

Can You Overdose on Sleeping Pills?

Yes, you can overdose on sleeping pills. You can take too many of almost any pill, but the effects of a sleeping pill overdose can be especially pronounced due to their sedative nature. The more potent they are, the more easy an overdose becomes—which is why following prescription guidelines is so important.

Sleeping pills can react to other substances, like alcohol, and have a much stronger effect. For example, alcohol is also a central nervous system depressant, so having alcohol and sleeping pills can create a dangerous double-strength effect4 even at your usual dose. Be sure to read the warnings on your prescription bottle and ask your doctor about potential drug interactions.

If you think you or someone else has overdosed on sleeping pills, call 911 or your local emergency number. 

Signs of Sleeping Pill Addiction

Someone who’s developed an addiction to sleeping pills typically will show a few key signs that you and other loved ones can look out for—or you might recognize these signs in yourself. In any scenario, identifying the need for help is the first big step in getting it.

Taking More Than The Prescribed Dose

For example, someone may have a prescribed dose of 10mg but take 50mg daily. Or, they might take 10mg throughout the day, multiple times daily. 

For a stronger effect some people may crush up their sleeping pills and snort the powder, dilute it in water and inject it, or dissolve it into a drink for a quicker impact.

Negative Consequences, But an Inability to Stop

Someone who’s unable to stop taking sleeping pills despite clear negative consequences has likely developed an addiction. These consequences could include job loss, damage to relationships, negative health effects, and stress.

Frequently Under The Influence

Overusing sleeping pills can mean someone often seems under their influence—sleeping or sleepy, disoriented, woozy, and disconnected from reality. They may go about daily life in this state or isolate themselves to hide symptoms.

New Habits and Friend Groups

As procuring and taking sleeping pills becomes more imperative due to an addiction, people’s habits and friend groups can change in turn. For example, they may adopt new habits to hide or excuse their drug use, like taking walks at night that could actually be private time to take substances unseen or meet dealers. 

New friend groups might include others in active addiction who can supply substances or connect people to more. At the least, these new friends may not discourage substance use, which can make them appealing substitutes for concerned friends and family.

Treatment Options for Misuse and Addiction

An addiction or dependence on sleeping pills can be treated, often with a tailored combination of behavioral therapies and medical care.

Behavioral Therapies

Therapy aims to reach the root of an addiction and pluck it. You’ll learn the purpose addiction serves in your life and how to address the issues and emotions that led to it, all in a safe and therapeutic space.

Common therapies for addiction include

Therapy occurs 1:1 with a therapist or in group settings. Many rehabs and outpatient addiction programs offer a structured daily routine of therapy and skill-building to address core issues and build relapse prevention skills.

Medical Interventions

Medical care can help people detox from substances like sleeping pills, safely removing them from their body. Detoxing without medical care can be dangerous and even fatal, so be sure to get your doctor’s advice on the level of care you need for your symptoms. You can ask questions like

  • “What treatments will make my recovery as safe and comfortable as possible?”
  • “How can I improve my sleep without sleeping pills?”
  • “Do I need medical detox? If so, what are my next steps for that?”
  • “What lifestyle changes can I make to improve my physical and mental health as I recover?”

Support Groups

“Connection is the opposite of addiction”5 has been touted and found true in many instances. One of the best ways to find connection is through peer support groups like Pills Anonymous (12-Step-based) or SMART Recovery groups (non-12-Step). These groups occur worldwide, in-person or virtually. You can also find connection and support through religious organizations, your workplace, and other community settings (like sports and craft communities). 

Find Help for Sleeping Pills Misuse and Addiction

With medical, therapeutic, and emotional support you can stop using sleeping pills, or cut down to a dose you and your doctor feel comfortable with. Your doctor can be your first point of care, guiding you to your various options and offering treatment.
You can also go to a rehab that treats sleeping pill addiction. Use Recovery.com to find sleeping pill rehabs by what insurance you have, your location, desired amenities and more.

Antidepressants Misuse and Addiction

Some people, especially those in recovery, may worry about developing an addiction to antidepressants. Thankfully, antidepressant addiction doesn’t occur often, but it is a possibility at non-therapeutic doses. This is due to how they can affect and change the brain, leading to a dependence then compulsory use. 

Anyone worried about their antidepressant use can bring their concerns to their doctor, who can start a tapering plan or even switch to a different type of antidepressant. Behavioral strategies, like therapy, can help people transition off antidepressants while still managing their symptoms.

What Are Antidepressants?

Antidepressants primarily treat depression1 and other mood disorders, plus conditions like obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). They work by balancing disruptions in neurotransmitters and boost the reception of serotonin, which can make people feel happier. 

Most antidepressants work on serotonin and another neurotransmitter called norepinephrine1. When your brain can receive and process more of these neurotransmitters, symptoms of depression can fade. Depression can go fully into remission due to neuroplasticity1, where your brain changes and adapts to sustain these positive changes. 

Common Types of Antidepressants

Antidepressants can have a variety of formulas and interact with different parts and systems within the brain. Your doctor and/or psychiatrist will aim to find the best match for you. A genetic test can help you pinpoint good matches. Sometimes, people cycle through a few antidepressants to find the one that works best.

Interestingly, many antidepressants have off-label uses for conditions besides mood disorders. For example, trazodone can help people fall asleep1. Some other antidepressants help patients with chronic pain.

SSRIs

Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) are often the first line of defense against depression2 due to their low side effects and general effectiveness. Most people respond positively to them, and doctors can smoothly pivot to another if one doesn’t seem to have much effect.

Prozac, Zoloft, Lexapro, Paxil, and Celexa are all common SSRI antidepressants. Potential side effects of SSRIs1 include:

  • Weight gain.
  • Dizziness.
  • Nausea, especially for the first couple weeks after starting the medication. In most cases, it goes away.
  • Sexual dysfunction.
  • Headaches.

SNRIs

Serotonin/norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs) work similarly to SSRIs1, but also block the reuptake of norepinephrine, not just serotonin. Doing this helps various synapses in your brain access more of these neurotransmitters, making you feel better. Norepinephrine triggers the central nervous system’s fight-or-flight response, leading to anxiety and panic disorders if these triggers don’t come when needed. SNRIs can reduce symptoms of both depression and anxiety.

SNRI brand names include Cymbalta, Pristiq, Effexor, and Fetzima. They can cause most of the same side effects as SSRIs, like:

  • Nausea that typically goes away after a week or so.
  • Headaches.
  • Excessive sweating.
  • High blood pressure.

MAOIs

Monoamine oxidase inhibitors (MAOIs) are a less-commonly prescribed antidepressant3, often used when an SSRI or SNRI doesn’t work. They’re more likely to have side effects, drug-food interactions, and drug interactions, which is why they’re prescribed with caution.

Common MAOIs include Marplan, Nardinm and Emsam. They can have side effects like:

  • Serotonin syndrome (too much serotonin).
  • Dizziness.
  • Vomiting.
  • Constipation.
  • High blood pressure and potential death if foods with tyramine are consumed (cheese, alcohol, leftovers, certain fruits, and more).

TCAs

Tricyclic antidepressants (TCAs) also inhibit the reuptake of serotonin and norepinephrine4, which can boost mood and attention. Some versions of TCAs are also used off-label to treat obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), insomnia, migraines, and chronic pain.

Common TCAs include Elavil, Silenor, and Asendin. Their side effects1 include:

  • Dry mouth.
  • Difficulty peeing.
  • Constipation.
  • Seizures.

How Are Antidepressants Misused?

An increase in feel-good neurotransmitters like serotonin can cause a reinforcing effect, though rare in antidepressants since this boost in mood is often subtle and feels natural. Misuse often happens outside prescribed doses5; for example, someone may take double or triple their prescribed dose (sometimes even 10x more) to achieve a ‘high’ similar to other drugs. This sensation only happens with high doses of certain antidepressants5, like bupropion.

Someone taking antidepressants for the sensation of being high may dissolve several pills in water and inject it using a syringe, take multiple pills orally, or crush them into a powder and snort it. To maintain their high dosing, they might request refills sooner than needed, take out prescriptions through multiple doctors, or request higher and higher doses without a demonstrated need.

Sadly, some people misuse antidepressants with the intent of taking their lives. In 2011 nearly every emergency room visit for a drug-induced suicide attempt came from prescribed medications; 20% of those overdoses involved antidepressants5, the highest percentage after prescribed opioids.

Can You Become Addicted to Antidepressants?

It’s very unlikely. One study answers this question6 with, “antidepressants do not have a clinically significant liability to cause addiction.” This is because most antidepressants don’t cause pleasurable or rewarding effects6, as addictive drugs like cocaine or alcohol do. And compulsive use of antidepressants, as seen in substance use disorders, is “exceptionally rare.”6

Antidepressants can cause withdrawal symptoms7, which raises an argument for their addictive potential since people may need to keep taking the substance to avoid withdrawals, similar to opioids and other addictive substances. Tapering plans can prevent uncomfortable withdrawals.

Factors Contributing to Antidepressant Misuse

Those who misuse antidepressants often have a history of substance use disorders5 or other comorbid conditions. And, as expected, people who misuse antidepressants typically have a mental health condition like depression. Since symptoms of depression can include suicidality8, these patients can be more likely to misuse their prescribed antidepressants in an overdose. 

Signs of Antidepressant Addiction

If you’re worried a loved one struggles with an antidepressant addiction, you can watch for signs and start an open-minded conversation. If you’re worried about your antidepressant use, you can bring your concerns to your doctor and look for signs of addiction in your own life.

Some key signs of an antidepressant addiction include:

  • Taking more than their prescribed dose. For example, you may notice they take three pills when the prescription bottle only says to take one. 
  • An inability to stop taking the pills, even if negative health, work, or relationship consequences arise.
  • Spending excessive time and money to procure antidepressants. 

Treatment Options for Addiction

If you’re struggling with an antidepressant addiction or any drug or alcohol addiction, you have resources available for recovery. Treatment options broadly fall into 2 categories: inpatient and outpatient care.

Inpatient Care

Inpatient treatment includes treatment in a hospital (often for acute withdrawal needs or overdoses) or attending a residential rehab. At rehab, you’ll live with peers and receive treatment from clinical staff, who monitor your health and emotional needs around the clock. 

Each day often follows a structure, with time for therapy (group therapy, 1:1 sessions with your therapist, and family therapy), fun activities, peer meetings, and downtime. Rehabs last 28+ days, aiming to treat both mental and physical needs for comprehensive healing. You’ll also learn relapse prevention strategies and get connected with outpatient levels of care, if desired, to continue your healing journey.

Outpatient Care

In short, outpatient care is the treatment you attend without living at a treatment facility. You return home after treatment and have more flexibility to work, attend school, and meet family needs. Outpatient care could include

  1. Day treatment, where you undergo therapeutic treatment and practice practical recovery skills for 5-7 days a week. Sessions often last 5-7 hours daily, making day treatment the most intensive version of outpatient care.
  2. In intensive outpatient programs (IOPs), you attend treatment 3-4 days weekly for about 3 hours a day. These also offer therapy, peer support, and an encouraging and supportive recovery environment but with a less intensive schedule.
  3. General outpatient can include 1-2 weekly group therapy sessions, lasting an hour or so each. 
  4. Regular 1:1 therapy sessions with a therapist. You may see them once a week, once every two weeks, or at the cadence best fit to your recovery needs.

Help from Your Doctors

As medication prescribers, your primary care physician (PHP) and/or psychiatrist can also help you. They can ensure that, going forward, all antidepressant prescriptions are carefully considered and that you have a clear plan for how to take them without risking addiction.

For example, your doctor may only prescribe a week’s worth and set up regular appointments to check in and monitor your use. Or you can work out a plan with loved ones, like a spouse or parent, to keep your medications locked in a safe. This can also be a preventative measure for people struggling with suicidal thoughts or with a history of suicidal ideation and attempts.

At your appointment, you can ask questions like,

  • “What is the addictive potential of this medication?”
  • “Are there other medications with less addictive potential that I could try first?”
  • “What signs should I look out for that mean this medication isn’t a good fit?”
  • “What can I do if I start to feel like I’m relying on it too much?”

Find Treatment for Drug Misuse

Recovery exists for all types of addictions, including antidepressant addiction. Treatment can help you navigate the underlying causes of addiction and address emotional struggles with healthy coping strategies and new behaviors. 
You can use Recovery.com to find prescription drug treatment centers and see their insurance information, reviews, photos, and more.

Designing a Sensory Room in a Mental Health and Substance Use Recovery Center: Dr. Sarah Anderson

Creating a sensory room within a mental health or substance use recovery center offers an innovative and holistic approach to healing. These dedicated spaces are designed to promote relaxation, reduce anxiety, improve focus, and provide therapeutic support. For individuals struggling with mental health conditions or addiction, sensory rooms are invaluable in meeting a wide variety of sensory needs, facilitating self-regulation, and enhancing overall recovery outcomes. This article delves into the essential components of designing a sensory room, the role of mental health occupational therapists, and how to create a sensory environment that fosters balance, safety, and emotional well-being. 

Understanding Sensory Rooms

A sensory room is a carefully constructed space that integrates a variety of sensory experiences, intended to help individuals manage stress, anxiety, and emotions. It encourages engagement with different sensory modalities—sight, sound, touch, smell, and movement—promoting regulation and offering relief from overwhelming stimuli (Champagne & Stromberg, 2004; Haig & Hallett, 2023). 

For individuals facing mental health challenges or recovering from substance use disorders, sensory rooms can provide tools for developing coping and self-regulation skills, increasing self-awareness, and fostering overall recovery. A sensory room provides a structured environment for processing emotional triggers, learning self-regulation techniques, and reducing physical symptoms of anxiety or distress (Champagne & Stromberg, 2004). Sensory processing challenges, commonly associated with ADHD, autism, or substance use disorders, can be effectively managed by thoughtfully selecting and organizing sensory modalities to support nervous system regulation and function.

Key Elements of a Sensory Room

When designing a sensory room, it’s important to have a balance between different sensory modalities. Each individual’s needs will differ, so the space should allow for flexibility and personalization while also providing common features that can be broadly helpful. Here are several key components of an effective sensory room:

  1. Visual Stimulation: Soft lighting (or the ability to dim the lights), calming colors, and soothing visual displays play a critical role in promoting relaxation. For example, adjustable light displays such as bubble tubes or fiber-optic lights can create a calming effect. Visuals that change slowly or projections of peaceful scenes help to engage the visual senses without overwhelming the user. Colors like pastel blues, greens, and purples are commonly used for their ability to promote calmness. 
  1. Auditory Experiences: Sound has a powerful impact on emotional states. Gentle sounds such as nature sounds or soft music can create an environment of tranquility. Instrumental or ambient music, in particular, is known to help clients focus and reduce stress. Personalized playlists or soundscapes can be tailored to individual preferences, making the auditory experience more effective for each user. While white noise is common in mental health settings, it is important to note that it has the potential to be overstimulating to some due to its constant and unchanging rhythm (Champagne & Stromberg, 2004; Haig & Hallett, 2023).
  1. Tactile Tools: Tactile experiences are essential for individuals who benefit from touch-based regulation. Sensory rooms should include a variety of textures for exploration and self-soothing, such as soft cushions, blankets, fidget tools, textured panels, and tactile mats. These materials allow clients to engage their sense of touch, providing opportunities to relax or self-regulate.
  1. Olfactory Elements: Calming scents, such as lavender, eucalyptus, and citrus, can significantly enhance the calming atmosphere of a sensory room. Essential oil diffusers or scent pads are common ways to introduce these scents. When introducing new fragrances, it’s important to consider allergies and sensitivities, as certain scents may trigger negative emotional responses. For example, some clients may have trauma-related sensitivities to specific scents. If a scent is used in the room, it needs to be easily removable. 
  1. Kinesthetic Activities: Sensory rooms should incorporate opportunities for physical movement. Swings, rocking chairs, exercise balls, and climbing walls are just a few examples of kinesthetic tools that allow clients to release energy, regulate their bodies, and express themselves physically. Gentle stretches, yoga mats, exercise bands, ankle/wrist weights, or spaces designed for relaxation also provide much-needed physical relief. 
  1. Safe Space for Retreat: Some individuals may need a quiet, secluded area within the sensory room where they can retreat when feeling overwhelmed. This space should include soft, comfortable seating and soundproofing to offer both physical and emotional safety. These private spaces allow for reflection and provide a place where clients can regain control over their emotional state during moments of distress.
  1. Interactive Technology: Digital tools like interactive touchscreens, virtual reality, and therapeutic apps can enhance sensory experiences by providing unique, engaging options. For instance, some programs combine visual stimulation with auditory feedback, helping clients participate in activities that promote relaxation or mindfulness. While not everyone finds interactive technology calming, some individuals do benefit from it. The key is to use technology thoughtfully and purposefully, tailoring it to each person’s needs and preferences.
  1. Weighted Products: Weighted blankets, vests, animals, pillows, and lap pads are often included in sensory rooms. These items offer deep pressure stimulation, which can help clients feel grounded and calm. Research shows that deep touch pressure can activate the parasympathetic nervous system, helping to reduce stress and anxiety. This makes weighted products beneficial for many individuals with sensory processing challenges (Champagne & Stromberg, 2004).

The Role of Occupational Therapists in Sensory Room Design

Mental health occupational therapy practitioners (MHOTPs) play a crucial role in designing and implementing sensory rooms. Their expertise lies in understanding how sensory input influences an individual’s emotional, cognitive, and physical states. A sensory room should never be designed without first understanding the sensory profiles of its potential users. Here’s how MHOTPs contribute to creating effective sensory rooms:

Client Assessments 

MHOTPs begin by conducting comprehensive sensory assessments of potential users. My preferred assessment is the Adolescent/Adult Sensory Profile, as it provides valuable insights into an individual’s sensory processing patterns. 

This assessment should always be administered by a highly trained mental health occupational therapy practitioner. It is important to know that both occupational therapists and occupational therapy assistants can administer The Adolescent/Adult Sensory Profile, however, only an occupational therapist can interpret the results. Additionally, a detailed occupational profile and supplemental interview questions are conducted to ensure accurate interpretation of the results. This thorough approach supports a well-rounded clinical assessment tailored to each individual’s unique needs and goals. 

Once enough assessments are completed, the therapist can analyze the data to identify common sensory patterns among potential users and design the space accordingly. Sensory rooms must be flexible and adaptable to meet the diverse needs of all users. (Brown et al., 2019).

Individualized Planning

Sensory needs differ greatly among individuals. Based on assessment results, MHOTPs can create a tailored plan for the sensory room that addresses the diverse needs of its users. For example, some individuals may require reduced auditory input due to sound sensitivity, while others may benefit from more auditory stimulation. This tailored planning ensures that the sensory room is equipped with tools and features that effectively support each person’s recovery (Brown et al., 2019).

Training and Support

MHOTPs also provide guidance on how to use sensory tools effectively. They educate clients on the purpose of each tool and offer strategies for engaging with the sensory room in ways that promote regulation as well as function. 

Through these efforts, MHOTPs ensure that sensory rooms are designed not only to meet the needs of potential users, but also to support their long-term well-being and recovery.

Designing Your Own Sensory Space at Home

Designing a sensory space at home can offer many of the same benefits as a sensory room in a recovery center, promoting relaxation and emotional regulation in a familiar environment. Start by choosing a quiet, comfortable area free from distractions, where you can control sensory input like lighting, sound, and visual stimuli. Tailor the space to your sensory preferences, such as dim lighting, calming music, or tactile textures like soft fabrics or weighted blankets, to create an atmosphere that supports relaxation. Incorporate a variety of sensory tools that engage different senses, such as textured pillows, fidgets, calming scents, ambient sound machines, or visual projections, experimenting to find what works best for you. Most importantly, ensure the space feels safe and supportive, offering a peaceful environment where you can process emotions and feel grounded.

Conclusion

Designing a sensory room in a mental health or substance use recovery setting is a powerful tool for promoting emotional regulation, enhancing self-awareness, and supporting overall healing. By integrating a range of sensory experiences and involving mental health occupational therapist practitioners in the process, these rooms offer a personalized and therapeutic space to help individuals in their recovery journey. Whether within a treatment center or at home, sensory spaces play a critical role in creating a holistic, supportive environment that nurtures emotional, cognitive, and physical well-being.

****The term “MHOTP” is used to refer to both Mental Health Occupational Therapy Practitioners (MHOTPs) and Mental Health Certified Occupational Therapy Assistants (MH-COTAs), providing inclusive language that encompasses both roles within mental health occupational therapy. Mental Health Occupational Therapy Practitioners (MHOTPs) are licensed occupational therapists who hold advanced knowledge and training in mental health interventions and assessments. They are responsible for designing and implementing treatment plans, conducting assessments, and providing direct therapeutic services. On the other hand, Mental Health Certified Occupational Therapy Assistants (MH-COTAs) work under the supervision of MHOTPs, assisting with the implementation of treatment plans, supporting clients with therapeutic activities, and ensuring that interventions are carried out effectively. Using “MHOTP” ensures that both practitioners and assistants are acknowledged for their valuable contributions to mental health care.

Managing Panic Attacks: How to Pack Your Panic Pack: Dr. Sarah Anderson

Panic attacks can feel terrifying, overwhelming, and all-consuming. They arrive suddenly, often without warning, and can make it difficult to feel like you’re in control of your body and mind. If you’ve ever experienced one, you know how distressing they can be. A racing heartbeat, rapid breathing, dizziness, chest tightness, and an overwhelming sense of impending doom—these are just some of the common symptoms of a panic attack.

But here’s the good news: Panic attacks, while unpleasant, are not life-threatening. Once you understand what’s happening in your body during a panic attack, you can start to reduce their frequency and intensity. The key to managing panic attacks lies in having a toolbox of strategies that can interrupt the overwhelming cycle of panic and help you regain a sense of control. One such tool is a “Panic Pack”—a collection of sensory-based grounding items that can help soothe your body and mind when panic strikes.

Understanding Panic Attacks: What Are They?

Panic attacks are sudden, intense episodes of fear or anxiety that often come without warning (American Psychiatric Association, 2013). These episodes can happen at any time, even when you’re feeling calm and relaxed. Panic attacks typically involve a combination of physical symptoms (like a rapid heartbeat, dizziness, chest tightness, or sweating) and emotional symptoms (such as feeling disconnected from reality, or a sense of impending doom). Although panic attacks can feel life-threatening, they are generally harmless and do not cause lasting damage.

Research suggests that panic attacks are caused by the body’s overreaction to stress or perceived danger, triggering the “fight or flight” response (Vickers & McNally, 2006). During this response, the body releases stress hormones like adrenaline and cortisol, which elevate heart rate, blood pressure, and breathing rate, preparing you to flee from danger. In the case of panic attacks, there is no real threat, but the body reacts as though there is.

Sensory-Based Grounding: Why It Works

When you experience a panic attack, your body is overwhelmed by heightened sensory input, and your mind can feel flooded with anxiety. Sensory grounding techniques work by redirecting your attention away from the panic and engaging your senses in a way that helps calm your nervous system. By using tools that appeal to the senses—sight, sound, touch, taste, smell, and movement (remember proprioception can be a helpful sense to engage to reduce anxiety)—you can help interrupt the cycle of panic and return to a state of calm.

Research shows that sensory-based grounding strategies can be highly effective for managing panic attacks. For example, tactile stimulation (such as squeezing a stress ball) has been found to activate the parasympathetic nervous system, which helps the body shift from the “fight or flight” response to a “rest and digest” state (Haynes et al., 2022). Similarly, scents like lavender and peppermint have been shown to reduce anxiety by stimulating the limbic system, the brain region responsible for processing emotions (Barati,, 2016).

Packing Your Panic Pack: Essential Items for Grounding

A Panic Pack is a personalized collection of sensory tools designed to help ground you and alleviate anxiety. Below are several items you can include in your kit, each chosen for its ability to engage different senses and promote relaxation.

1. Weighted Lap Pad

Weighted lap pads are tools used by occupational therapists, typically as a sensory integration modality, to help with emotional and physical regulation. A weighted lap pad provides gentle pressure, which can have a calming effect. Weighted products stimulate the parasympathetic nervous system, promoting a sense of grounding and relaxation (Eron et al., 2020).

2. Fidget Items

Fidget toys such as orbeez squish balls, stress balls, or fidget spinners are simple, portable tools that can help distract the mind during a panic attack. These tactile items allow you to focus on a repetitive motion or texture, which can help redirect your attention away from overwhelming anxiety. (Kriescher,et al., 2023).

3. Earbuds or Headphones and a Calming Playlist

Music and sound have powerful effects on our emotions. Create a calming playlist with soothing music that helps you feel grounded and less anxious. Alternatively, consider having a calming podcast on hand, whether it’s guided meditation, breathing exercises, or a favorite calming show. Studies have shown that listening to calming music can reduce heart rate and lower levels of cortisol (Thoma et al., 2013).

4. Grounding Smells

Scent is one of the most powerful senses for evoking emotional responses. A portable essential oil diffuser, essential oil rollerball, or lotion with calming scents like lavender, chamomile, or peppermint can help reduce anxiety during a panic attack (Barati,, 2016).

5. Sour Candy (e.g., Warheads or Sour Patch Kids)

Engaging your sense of taste with something intensely sour can be a surprisingly effective grounding tool. Sour candies like Warheads or Sour Patch Kids can interrupt the cycle of panic by providing strong sensory input that shifts attention away from overwhelming thoughts and bodily sensations. This grounding effect helps bring focus back to the present moment. The sour taste acts as a sensory distraction, redirecting attention from anxiety to the immediate sensory experience (Rainville, 2013).

6. Breathing Exercise Guide

Consider packing a small device (like a Breathing Buddha Meditation Tool) or having an app with visual cues, such as color-changing lights or animations, to guide deep breathing. These devices often display colors that correspond to the in-breath, hold, and out-breath phases (e.g., blue for inhale, yellow for hold, green for exhale). Visual tools help regulate breathing patterns while using the sense of sight to anchor attention to the present, reducing physiological arousal during panic attacks (Bentley et al., 2023).

7. Personal Comfort Items

Personal items that evoke comfort and safety can be incredibly soothing during a panic attack. A small memento such as a piece of jewelry, a comforting photo, or a soft fabric (like a scarf or blanket) can help you feel more grounded and safe. These items provide a tangible reminder of calm and support, which can be particularly helpful during moments of overwhelming anxiety.

8. Water

Staying hydrated is crucial for both physical and emotional well-being. Including a water bottle in your Panic Pack ensures you’re prepared to stay hydrated during an anxiety attack. Taking slow, deliberate sips of water can be a soothing ritual that helps you re-focus and regain control. This simple act not only hydrates you but also activates the vagus nerve, which plays a key role in calming the body’s stress response. Drinking water offers a grounding task that interrupts the cycle of panic, providing a moment of clarity and connection to the present (Masento et al., 2014).

9. Phone Numbers of Trusted Contacts

Sometimes, the best way to reduce the intensity of a panic attack is by reaching out for support. Include a list of trusted friends, family members, or a therapist that you can contact when you feel overwhelmed. Research has shown that talking to a supportive person can help reduce feelings of isolation and anxiety, providing emotional relief and a sense of connection during a panic attack (Maulik et al., 2010).

Final Thoughts

Having a Panic Pack ready and accessible can be an empowering way to manage panic attacks. By using sensory grounding techniques, you can interrupt the cycle of anxiety and regain control over your body and mind. The key is to personalize your Panic Pack with items that work best for you, helping you feel safe, calm, and supported when panic strikes.

With practice, these tools can become second nature, providing you with a reliable strategy for reducing the intensity of panic attacks and navigating them with confidence. If you are needing more individualized support regarding your sensory processing and how it impacts your mental health, please reach out to a mental health occupational therapist.

Sensory Processing and Mental Health: An Introduction: Dr. Sarah Anderson

Our senses shape how we experience the world—the sights we see, the sounds we hear, the textures we touch, the flavors we taste, and the scents we smell. While many people find everyday sensory experiences manageable or even enjoyable, others may find certain stimuli overwhelming or insufficient, creating challenges in their daily lives. By deepening our understanding of sensory processing and its link to mental health, we can foster greater well-being and support more effective paths to recovery.

What Is Sensory Processing?
Sensory processing refers to how your body and brain receive, recognize, and interpret sensory information (Brown et al., 2019). This process begins when your nervous system detects sensory stimuli through various receptors, leading to a behavioral response. For example, imagine hearing a loud alarm while working at your desk. You recognize the sound as a fire alarm, observe others moving toward safety, and are prompted to follow them. This highlights how sensory processing helps you respond adaptively to your environment.

There is variability in sensitivity to sensory stimuli based on individual thresholds (Brown et al., 2019). A high threshold indicates that a person needs a stronger stimulus to notice it, whereas a low threshold means even minimal stimuli can become overwhelming. For instance, while most people would quickly respond to a loud fire alarm, individuals who are hyper-responsive to auditory stimuli may find such sounds painful, causing long-lasting dysregulation. On the other hand, those who are hyposensitive may require a stronger stimulus for recognition.

While many people are familiar with the five traditional senses—sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell—three lesser-known senses are also critical for understanding sensory processing: proprioception (awareness of body position), vestibular (balance and movement), and interoception (awareness of internal body states) (Brown et al., 2019). In individuals with typical sensory processing, the brain effectively organizes and integrates sensory information, allowing appropriate responses to stimuli. For example, a person might walk along a crowded street, effectively filtering out distractions like billboards and other pedestrians, or engage in a conversation in a busy café without becoming overwhelmed by the surrounding noise and activity. Those with atypical sensory processing may struggle to take in stimuli and modulate their responses, leading to feelings of overwhelm or anxiety. 

A Model for Understanding Sensory Processing 

As a mental health occupational therapist, I use a specific framework to understand my clients’ sensory processing patterns—Dunn’s Sensory Processing Model. This model categorizes sensory processing into four quadrants (or patterns), each representing different ways individuals respond to sensory input (Brown et al., 2019):

Sensation Seeking

These individuals actively pursue intense sensory experiences and are often drawn to environments that provide heightened stimulation. They tend to crave loud environments, bright colors, and high levels of movement. Sensation seekers often thrive in situations that involve excitement and novelty. 

For example, they may enjoy engaging in contact sports such as football or rugby, where the physicality and intensity provide both sensory input and an adrenaline rush. Similarly, thrilling amusement park rides, like roller coasters, offer the fast movement and sensory overload they enjoy. Additionally, these individuals may find pleasure in activities such as dancing at loud clubs, racing motorcycles, or participating in extreme sports like skydiving or rock climbing, where the combination of physical exertion and sensory excitement is high. Sensation seekers are often drawn to high-energy, sensory-rich environments because they help satisfy their need for stimulation.

Sensation Avoiding

People with sensation avoiding patterns feel uncomfortable with strong sensory stimuli and actively limit their exposure to prevent stress or overwhelm. These individuals are particularly sensitive to intense or overstimulating environments, and they often seek out quiet, calm spaces to feel more in control and at ease. The key characteristic of sensation avoiders is that they make a conscious effort to avoid situations that may lead to sensory overload. 

For instance, they may prefer online shopping over visiting crowded stores because the noise, bright lights, and large crowds can cause distress. Similarly, they may choose to eat and converse at home rather than going to noisy restaurants, where the sounds, smells, and social interactions can be overwhelming. In other contexts, sensation avoiders might prefer a peaceful walk in nature over attending a crowded event or concert. They may also avoid certain types of music or films that feature loud noises or flashing lights due to their heightened sensitivity. By actively limiting sensory exposure, sensation avoiders can maintain a sense of comfort and reduce anxiety caused by overstimulation.

Sensory Sensitivity

Sensory-sensitive individuals, like sensation avoiders, are highly attuned to sensory stimuli and can become overwhelmed or anxious when exposed to certain sounds, sights, or other sensations. They are particularly responsive to environmental inputs, such as bright lights, strong odors, or loud noises. However, the key distinction between sensory sensitivity and sensation avoidance lies in their reaction to these stimuli. While sensation avoiders actively work to limit their exposure to sensory triggers, sensory-sensitive individuals do not necessarily avoid them. Instead, they confront and endure these sensory experiences, often feeling the full intensity of the distressing sensations. 

For example, a sensory-sensitive individual might attend a concert despite being sensitive to loud music, or they might work in a busy office environment even though the noise and activity create discomfort. The difference here is that, rather than avoiding these situations, they are exposed to them and may struggle to manage their heightened sensitivity, leading to feelings of overwhelm, irritability, or anxiety.

Low Registration

Individuals in this category may not notice sensory input readily, requiring stronger or more intense stimuli to respond. This can make them appear inattentive or uninterested in their surroundings, as they may not pick up on subtle sensory cues that others might notice immediately. For example, they may not be aware of a ringing phone, a colleague speaking to them, or even a change in the temperature of the room until the sensory input becomes more intense or disruptive. Because of this, people with low registration might be perceived as daydreaming, disengaged, or disinterested, but in reality, they are simply less responsive to sensory input.

These individuals often need support systems built into their environment to help them stay on track and become more aware of important stimuli. For example, they might benefit from the use of alarms to signal tasks or appointments, sticky notes as reminders for daily responsibilities, or bright, noticeable signs to highlight important information. These external cues help trigger their attention and provide necessary prompts to remain engaged with their environment.

In some cases, individuals with low registration may not respond to social cues or environmental changes unless they are more extreme. For example, they may not notice a subtle shift in tone when someone is upset with them, but if the person becomes visibly angry or vocal, they are more likely to react. Similarly, they might not notice a decrease in room temperature until it becomes very cold or uncomfortable. The challenge lies in their ability to process and respond to sensory stimuli only when the input reaches a certain threshold of intensity. While this pattern of sensory processing may not necessarily cause distress or anxiety for these individuals, it can lead to difficulties in social or work environments, where a heightened awareness of sensory details and a more timely response are often necessary.

It is important to know sensory processing is not always uniform across all sensory modalities, and people may display different patterns depending on the type of sensory input they encounter. For example, while someone might avoid certain auditory stimuli, they may actively seek out specific tactile or oral sensory experiences. This complexity emphasizes the importance of tailoring sensory interventions to the unique needs of each individual, ensuring that therapeutic approaches are both comprehensive and personalized. 

The Relevance of Sensory Processing in Mental Health
Many individuals with mental health conditions, including anxiety disorders, depression, ADHD, OCD, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), exhibit sensory processing differences (Brown et al., 2019). For those with anxiety, sensory overload can exacerbate symptoms, leading to panic and avoidance behaviors. An individual with sensory avoidance patterns may steer clear of crowded social events, often resulting in isolation and increased feelings of loneliness.

Additionally, a study by Jerome and Liss (2005) explored the relationship between sensory processing patterns and attachment types. The authors found that sensory sensitivity correlates with relationship anxiety, while sensory avoidance relates to relationship avoidance; low registration is associated with both forms of relationship discomfort, and sensory seeking is linked to secure attachment.

Sensory processing can also play a key role in building resilience and supporting recovery. Engaging in positive sensory experiences promotes overall well-being and helps individuals feel grounded during times of distress. Interventions that include sensory-based strategies, such as mindfulness practices and grounding exercises, have been shown to support nervous system regulation (Miller et al., 2007). For example, practicing deep breathing while focusing on tactile sensations like a soft blanket or stress ball can induce relaxation in overwhelming situations. Weighted blankets, in particular, offer deep pressure stimulation that activates calming sensory pathways, reduces anxiety, and boosts melatonin production, fostering a sense of safety and relaxation (Yu et al., 2024). Additionally, introducing a noxious stimulus, such as a sour taste, during a panic attack can help redirect attention. This interrupts the cycle of distress and engages neural pathways that regulate emotional responses (Rainville, 2013).

Practical Strategies for Engaging with Sensory Processing Differences
Understanding one’s sensory processing patterns can lead to effective coping strategies that enhance engagement in daily life. Here are specific strategies tailored to each processing category:

  • For Sensation Seekers: Structured physical activities such as rock climbing or martial arts provide the significant sensory input that sensory seekers benefit from, promoting physical and emotional regulation through intense engagement. Similarly, practices like yoga or tai chi enhance grounding and body awareness through controlled movement. For those craving excitement, adventure activities such as zip-lining offer stimulating sensory experiences while fostering a sense of community and connection with others.
  • For Sensation Avoiders: Gradual exposure to challenging environments, like shopping during off-peak hours, allows sensory avoiders to build tolerance without overwhelming their senses. Comfort tools such as noise-canceling headphones or sunglasses provide instant relief in overstimulating situations. Additionally, calmer venues with softer lighting create a sensory-friendly atmosphere for social interactions, contributing to more positive experiences.
  • For Sensory Sensitivity: Designating a safe space at home equipped with weighted blankets and sensory-friendly items can provide a calming refuge for sensory-sensitive individuals. Mindfulness techniques such as deep breathing and gentle stretching focus on regulation, reducing the effects of sensory overload. Engaging with nature through activities like gardening or hiking can also help mitigate sensory overwhelm by offering grounding sensory input in a peaceful environment.
  • For Low Registration: Individuals with low registration often miss sensory cues, making tools like alarms, sticky notes, or digital reminders valuable in fostering engagement and awareness. For example, placing a sticky note on a desk as a visual cue and pairing it with a timed phone alarm can help reinforce tasks that might otherwise go unnoticed. Incorporating tactile or flavorful experiences into routines, such as savoring meals or exploring varied textures, can further enhance sensory awareness and promote meaningful interaction with one’s environment.

Additional Considerations in Recovery
It’s crucial for centers and programs to have formal sensory assessments such as the Adolescent/adult Sensory Profile, as this helps to understand the unique sensory profiles of the individuals in their care. A formal assessment provides valuable insight into how sensory processing may be affecting their clients’ daily functioning, helping programs identify when sensory processing is a barrier. This enables them to implement targeted interventions and accommodations, ensuring that sensory needs are met. Furthermore, understanding the sensory profiles of individuals allows providers to offer personalized support strategies and create environments that foster greater comfort and engagement. Sensory processing is a foundational aspect of how we navigate the world, and understanding its complexities enables us to support individuals in overcoming challenges so that they can thrive in their daily lives. 

Thoughtful Gift Giving: Balancing Awareness and Inclusivity: Andrew Schreier

As a licensed professional counselor and clinical substance abuse counselor, I have dedicated my career to helping individuals navigate challenges surrounding substance use, mental health, and behavioral struggles. Working in outpatient therapy, recovery support groups, and community education, I’ve witnessed the role of thoughtful communication and mindful actions in fostering recovery, healing, and deeper human connection.

The holiday season, in particular, allows us to show our care through gift-giving. Giving gifts is a tradition cherished across cultures and generations. The intention of gift-giving can be used to express love, gratitude, and loyalty, demonstrate power, seek prestige, or manipulate relationships. However, this seemingly simple act can carry added weight for many people. For those dealing with substance use recovery, grief, gambling, financial challenges, strained relationships, or separation from loved ones, holidays can intensify emotions that may otherwise remain manageable. 

Understanding these circumstances and approaching gift-giving with care, intention, and inclusivity is critical. This article provides insight into how we can create a culture of mindful gifting—one that celebrates generosity while respecting the needs and experiences of others.

Statistics Related to Gift-Giving

GiftAFeeling provides these statistics from their “103+ Gift Giving Statistics: A Comprehensive Study for 2024”1 to share key insights into understanding gift-giving trends:

  • 85% of People Believe Gifts Strengthen Personal Relationships
    • Giving a gift is a meaningful way to show someone you care. Studies reveal that 85% of people feel gifts help build closer personal connections. It’s not about the item itself but the sentiment behind it, which can make friends, family members, or loved ones feel appreciated and valued. A thoughtful gift can strengthen bonds, creating lasting memories that deepen personal relationships.
  • 67% of People Feel More Appreciated with Recognition Gifts from Loved Ones
    • Receiving a thoughtful gift can make anyone feel recognized and appreciated. In fact, 67% of people feel more valued when they receive a gift that acknowledges a special milestone, such as birthdays, anniversaries, or personal achievements. These gestures remind loved ones that they’re seen and valued, helping build stronger bonds in families and friendships alike.
  • 43% of People Remember Thoughtful Gifts Longer
    • People tend to remember meaningful gifts that show someone really thought about them. Research shows that 43% of people remember gifts longer when the gift is personal and thoughtful. Whether it’s a favorite book, a custom item, or something that aligns with their hobbies, a well-chosen gift can leave a lasting impression, making the gesture feel special and memorable.

Navigating Gift Giving: Recovery and Mental Health 

Gift-giving is one of the hallmarks of the holiday season. It’s a way to express love, appreciation, and gratitude. However, for some, receiving certain gifts or the very act of gift-giving itself can trigger emotional challenges, highlight financial insecurities, or exacerbate feelings of isolation.  The same gift can convey love, gratitude, or shared memories2, while for another might create stress or obligations for both giver and receiver.

Here are a few key challenges to consider:

  1. Substance Use and Mental Health Recovery
    For individuals in recovery, certain gifts can unintentionally undermine their progress. A bottle of wine given to someone abstaining from alcohol, gambling-related items like lottery tickets, or gifts that allude to harmful coping mechanisms can be deeply triggering. While the giver’s intention may be positive, the impact can result in emotional setbacks, shame, or even relapse.
  2. Grief and Loss
    Holidays often magnify the loss of loved ones. For someone spending their first season without a family member or friend—or even years after a passing—grief can resurface strongly. Well-meaning gifts might unintentionally stir up painful reminders. At the same time, overlooking someone’s grief entirely can make them feel unseen or isolated.
  3. Gambling-Related Issues
    Individuals struggling with gambling-related problems may find gift-giving during the holidays challenging due to financial strain, such as limited resources or gambling away money intended for gifts. Emotional factors like guilt, shame, or damaged relationships can further complicate their ability to participate in holiday traditions. The pressure to meet societal expectations or strained connections with loved ones may lead to avoidance of celebrations altogether. It is also common for gambling-related items (such as lottery tickets) to be given as gifts to children and youth who are at risk.
  4. Financial Barriers
    For individuals unable to afford gifts, societal and family expectations during the holidays can create shame, embarrassment, or stress. Gift exchanges often emphasize material items, unintentionally excluding those for whom spending money is simply not feasible.
  5. Separation from Loved Ones
    Whether someone is serving in the military, working away from home, incarcerated, or otherwise unable to be with family, holidays can feel especially lonely. Gift-giving traditions may serve as a reminder of their physical absence, exacerbating feelings of disconnection.
  6. Strained Relationships
    For individuals experiencing tension, estrangement, or conflict within their families, holidays can be emotionally complex. Traditional gatherings and gift-giving can add pressure to reconcile, making them feel conflicted about participating.

When these challenges go unacknowledged, gift-giving can shift from a thoughtful, meaningful practice into something that feels burdensome, exclusionary, or harmful. Instead, a mindful approach to gifting—one that centers on empathy and inclusivity—can transform the act into a powerful gesture of care and connection.

Does Stigma Impact Gift Giving?

The stigma surrounding substance use, mental health, and gambling can have a profound effect on gift-giving.  Assumptions or a lack of understanding about what may be helpful or harmful to individuals dealing with these challenges is a result of stigmas. For example, a well-intentioned gift of alcohol or lottery tickets may unintentionally trigger harmful behaviors or undermine someone’s recovery journey. Similarly, ignoring the unique needs of individuals facing mental health challenges may result in gifts that feel thoughtless or even alienating, reinforcing feelings of isolation or shame. There might also be beliefs that individuals in recovery from substance use, mental health, and recovery don’t deserve gifts because of the impact of their behavior on family members and loved ones.

One of the ways stigma manifests in gift-giving is through avoidance or discomfort. People may hesitate to address sensitive issues or ask what someone might truly need, fearing awkwardness or judgment. This reluctance can perpetuate harmful stereotypes, such as assuming that a person in recovery can “just avoid” triggers or that someone with mental health challenges doesn’t need additional support. By failing to consider the individual’s circumstances and experiences, the act of giving a gift can lose its intended purpose of fostering connection, care, and inclusion.

A Safe Space for Gift-Giving Insight

In my counseling practice, I’ve seen firsthand how thoughtful adjustments to holiday traditions foster healing and strengthen relationships. While our initial reaction to giving and receiving gifts may come with excitement, it’s often common to see how these traditions and culture around the holiday seasons have the opposite impact. I’ve worked with families, individuals, and communities to address some of the challenges outlined above.

For example:

  • Supporting Recovery: One family struggled to adjust their holiday traditions after their loved one entered treatment for alcohol use disorder. They initially felt frustrated at the idea of giving up their long-standing tradition of gifting alcohol as part of a larger family tradition when relatives were over. Through open conversation, they understood that maintaining this tradition was not worth jeopardizing their loved one’s progress and identifying their ultimate goal of giving gifts. They replaced alcohol-related gifts with shared experiences; and their first one was attending a holiday concert together. The family deepened their bonds and honored their loved one’s recovery.
  • Navigating Grief: In another case, a client expressed how painful it was to celebrate the holidays without their partner, who had passed away. Rather than ignoring the loss, their family honored their partner’s memory by sharing stories, cooking their favorite dish, and giving gifts that reflected their shared memories. This acknowledgment of grief brought comfort and inclusion during an otherwise difficult time.
  • Addressing Financial Barriers: During a community workshop, families expressed anxiety about not being able to afford gifts for their children. Together, we explored non-material alternatives—such as handmade crafts, letters of gratitude, or creating “experience coupons” for activities like family game nights or movie marathons. These small gestures carried deep meaning without placing financial strain on the family.
  • Campaign to Gift Responsibly: There are campaigns to commit to gifting responsibly.  The Gift Responsibly Campaign3 by the National Council on Problem Gambling (NCPG) raises awareness about the risks of gifting lottery tickets to minors. The campaign emphasizes that lottery tickets are not appropriate gifts for children, as they can contribute to unhealthy gambling behaviors later in life. By promoting thoughtful and responsible gift-giving, the initiative encourages individuals to consider the long-term impact of their choices during the holiday season. The campaign also highlights the importance of education and prevention in fostering healthy attitudes toward gambling. This example can lead others to consider thoughtful gift giving for areas like substance use, mental health, and grief.

These examples underscore an important point: mindful gift-giving doesn’t require perfection or grand gestures. It simply involves thoughtful consideration of someone’s circumstances, needs, and experiences.

General Tips for Gift-Giving Conversations

Having conversations around gift-giving can be challenging. We may be reluctant to over fear that we are dismissing someone’s excitement or enthusiasm; however, it is important that through conversation we can get to a better idea of what is best for the individuals in relation to gift giving. Start with empathy and intention when discussing gift-giving. Emphasize that the goal is not to criticize traditions but to create thoughtful, inclusive moments that support everyone. Frame the conversation as an opportunity for learning and growing together. Use language like, “This is an opportunity to make our gift-giving more meaningful for everyone.”

  • Share Personal Stories and Examples
    Real-life scenarios can make the message more relatable. Share how small changes in gift-giving have positively impacted others.
  • Encourage Open Conversations
    Normalize questions like:
    • “What kind of gifts do you find meaningful?”
    • “Are there gifts you’d prefer to avoid?”
      Promote curiosity and understanding rather than making assumptions.

The Solution: Strategies for Thoughtful, Inclusive Gift-Giving

Here are actionable strategies to make gift-giving more intentional, inclusive, and supportive for all individuals:

1. Avoid Triggering Gifts

  • For individuals in recovery, avoid gifts related to alcohol, gambling, or other substances. Instead, focus on hobbies, shared experiences, or wellness-related items.
  • Be mindful of individuals grieving a loss. Avoid gifts that unintentionally emphasize the absence of their loved one unless they are specifically chosen to honor their memory.

2. Consider Non-Material or Meaningful Alternatives

  • Shared Experiences: Give gifts that focus on spending time together, such as tickets to events, a home-cooked dinner, or a nature outing.
  • Personalized Gifts: Handwritten letters, photo albums, or handmade items show thoughtfulness and appreciation without relying on materialism.
  • Self-Care Gifts: Journals, books, cozy blankets, candles, or wellness kits can provide comfort and support.
  • Acts of Service: Offering your time—such as helping with chores, cooking meals, or offering childcare—can be an invaluable gift, especially for those under stress.

3. Acknowledge Unique Circumstances

  • For individuals with financial limitations, emphasize gifts that don’t require spending. Organize traditions centered on shared time, games, or storytelling.
  • For those grieving or away from family, consider thoughtful gestures like letters, care packages, or simple check-ins to let them know they are remembered and valued.
  • Respect the boundaries of individuals navigating strained relationships, and create spaces where they can still feel included without pressure.

4. Foster Open Communication

  • Normalize conversations about gift-giving preferences and sensitivities. Asking someone about their comfort level can prevent unintentional harm and help you choose a meaningful gift.
  • Share these practices within your family, workplace, and community to encourage a broader culture of inclusivity.

Beyond the Holidays

While the conversation around thoughtful gift-giving often surfaces during the holidays, it is a relevant and meaningful practice year-round. Gift-giving is not limited to presents under a tree during the winter month holidays. It is an ongoing part of how we show care, connection, and empathy in our daily lives. Whether it’s acknowledging someone’s grief, supporting their recovery, or respecting their personal circumstances, the intention behind a gift carries far more weight than the gift itself.

As we move forward, let us approach gift-giving with the awareness that our choices have the power to uplift or unintentionally harm. By fostering a culture of thoughtful, inclusive gifting, we can transform this tradition into one that brings joy, connection, and healing for all. This holiday season and beyond, let’s commit to gifts that reflect care, understanding, and respect. Whether big or small, material or experiential, a thoughtful gift can make a lasting impact on the lives of those we love.

Mindful gifting isn’t just a seasonal practice—it’s a lifelong commitment to inclusivity and compassion.

5 Ways Working With A Recovery Coach Can Be Helpful

As you work through the challenges of your recovery journey, having a recovery coach can be a big help. A certified recovery coach is a trained professional who offers support, encouragement, and guidance to people recovering from substance use disorder. Here are 5 ways a recovery coach can help you during your recovery.

1. Personalized Support and Guidance

  • A Customized Approach: Recovery coaches work with you to create a personalized recovery plan that fits your specific needs and goals. They understand that everyone’s path to recovery is different, and so are their challenges. Coaches provide customized support, adjusting their approach to match your goals and situation. They believe you often know what works best for you and support you in following the path you choose for your recovery.

2. Enhanced Accountability

  • Regular Check-Ins: Recovery coaches often set up regular check-ins to keep you connected to reliable support. These check-ins help track your progress and, if you choose, hold you accountable for your goals. They also give you time to celebrate your achievements, talk about any challenges you’re facing, and prepare for upcoming obstacles. You get to decide how often the check-ins happen and how they take place—whether in person, virtually, through phone calls, or even texts. It’s all up to you.

3. Improved Coping Skills and Relapse Prevention

  • Relapse Prevention: One role of a recovery coach is to help with relapse prevention. According to a study by the National Institute on Drug Abuse, 40-60% of people in addiction recovery experience relapse. Because of this, having effective strategies to manage relapse is important. A recovery coach can help you identify triggers and create coping strategies. They work with you to recognize early warning signs of relapse and take steps to stay on track with your sobriety, if that is your goal.
  • Stress Management Techniques: Recovery coaches can help you explore different ways to cope with stress. For many people, stress is a trigger and can lead to cravings, so learning how to manage it is important.
  • Problem-Solving and Boundary-Setting Skills: Recovery coaches can also help you build problem-solving skills to overcome challenges and reduce the chances of relapse. Setting boundaries is another key part of recovery. Boundaries allow you to define what you will and won’t accept in your life. Learning to set healthy boundaries can empower you to focus on your needs and protect your well-being.

4. Increased Access to Resources

  • Connecting with Support Networks: Recovery coaches are familiar with many resources, including local and online support groups, harm reduction programs, treatment options, and other community services that can support your recovery.
  • Navigating the System: They can also help you navigate the often complicated healthcare system to access the services and support you need.

5. Reduced Isolation and Increased Social Connection

  • Building Relationships: Recovery coaches can help you develop healthy relationships with others in recovery, which can strengthen your support network and “recovery capital” or resources.
  • Community Engagement: They can connect you with community activities and volunteer opportunities, helping you feel a sense of belonging and purpose.

Working with a recovery coach can have many benefits and make a positive difference in your journey toward lasting recovery and well-being. If any of these sparked your interest, consider exploring the option of working with a coach for your recovery journey.