How to Help Someone Who Is Suicidal

If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts, call 911 or visit the nearest emergency room. If the person is not currently in crisis, talk to a mental health professional, a helpline, or emergency services in your country. Many countries have crisis helplines that offer support and assistance to individuals in distress. The United States Suicide Hotline is 988, and the US number to message for a crisis text line is 741741. If you live outside of the United States, you can find your country’s emergency number in this list.

If you are supporting someone close to you who is struggling with suicidal thoughts, it is essential to take a sensitive and earnest approach. There can be many underlying factors that contribute to suicidal ideation, and seeking expert assistance is always strongly recommended.

What Are the Signs of Suicide?

Recognizing warning signs of suicidality can save a life. While these signs are unique to each person, some common ones that might indicate a person is experiencing suicidal thoughts include:

Sign #1: Expressing thoughts of hopelessness or having no reason to live

Sign #2: Talking about wanting to die or kill oneself

Sign #3: Engaging in reckless behavior or taking unnecessary risks

Sign #4: Withdrawing from social activities and isolating oneself from others

Sign #5: Exhibiting extreme mood swings or displaying sudden changes in behavior

Sign #6: Expressing feelings of being trapped or having no way out of a situation

Sign #7: Giving away personal belongings or making final arrangements

Sign #8: Increased use of alcohol or drugs

Sign #9: Sudden improvement or calmness following a period of depression or sadness (this may indicate a decision to attempt suicide)

Sign #10: A final goodbye conversation

Suicidal Thoughts Vs. Suicidal Ideation

Suicidal ideation and suicidal thoughts are intertwined concepts that have distinct characteristics. While both involve contemplating suicide, they differ in terms of the depth of the thought process and the amount of planning involved.

Suicidal thoughts are any thoughts of ending your life. This is usually less intense than ideation and is just a more general feeling of not wanting to live. Someone experiencing this could find a successful recovery in outpatient or residential treatment. If you know someone with suicidal thoughts, call 911 or 988. You can also text the US crisis text line: 741741.

Suicidal ideation is a thought-out suicide plan. The thoughts leading up to this are usually more intense and persistent and include a chosen method, timing, and specific actions they’re going to take. Someone with suicidal ideation should receive care in an inpatient setting, either at a hospital or a rehabilitation center. If you know someone has a plan and resources to commit suicide, call 911 and/or visit the nearest emergency room.

What Are Ways to Help Someone Who Is Suicidal? 

If someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, take their situation seriously and provide support. You can be an invaluable source of guidance and comfort for them during their recovery journey; however, it is important to remember that it is essential to find professional help.

Help Keep Them Safe

If you believe the person is in immediate danger, do not leave them alone. Try to remove any items from their space that they could use for self-harm or suicide. Develop a safety plan that outlines steps they can take when they experience suicidal feelings or distress. Include emergency contacts, coping strategies, and resources they can turn to for support.

Encourage Professional Help

Encourage your loved one to seek professional help. You can help them find appropriate resources, make appointments, or accompany them to appointments if they are comfortable with you joining. Give them information about suicide prevention hotlines that they can contact for immediate support.

Offer Hope 

Offering hope to someone who is suicidal can be a powerful way to support them during a difficult time. Share recovery stories and celebrate any progress they make, no matter how small. Encourage them to envision a future where things can improve. And explore their goals and dreams with them.

Follow-Up 

After the initial intervention, continue to check in on them regularly. Knowing that someone cares and is available to listen can be very comforting. If allowed, check in with their care team to ensure they’re following through with their safety and treatment plans.

How to Talk to Someone Who Is Suicidal

Talking to someone who is suicidal can be an opportunity to show your empathy, patience, and understanding. For this conversation, find a quiet and private space. Approach the conversation with a calm and non-judgmental attitude. Show that you genuinely care and want to listen. And be clear that you’re concerned about them.

Encourage them to share their feelings and thoughts by asking open-ended questions like, “can you tell me what you’ve been going through?” or “how have you been feeling lately?” 

Acknowledge their feelings by saying “Tell me how you are feeling, I want to hear you,” or “I am here for you. Tell me how I can help you.” If you feel comfortable, ask them if they’re feeling suicidal, so that you know what type of support to get them. Empathize with what they’re experiencing—they’ll be more likely to trust you for help.

Be patient with your loved one. They are going through a challenging time, so let them talk at their own pace. Stay calm and collected when they tell you about their feelings. Make sure they know that you’re there for them and that they don’t have to go through this alone. Remind them that seeking help is a positive step.

Where to Get Help for Suicide?

Finding Immediate Help

Help is always available. If someone is in a life-threatening situation, call 911 and/or take them to an emergency room and stay with the person until they have medical help. If you live outside of the United States, you can find your country’s emergency number in this list.

Call a Hotline

If your loved one is currently safe, you can call the United States Suicide Hotline: 988. The number provides 24/7, confidential support to anyone in crisis. Another number to call is the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) or text “HOME” to 741741 to connect with a trained crisis counselor via text message.

Find a Mental Health Professional

Once you have assured your loved one’s safety and have talked with a hotline and/or doctor, you can consult a mental health professional, like a psychiatrist, psychologist, or therapist, to develop their treatment plan. If you are having trouble finding an available professional, go to your primary care physician first. They can refer you to the appropriate person. 

Talk Therapy

Mental health professionals are trained to help people with suicidal thoughts. They can provide therapy, medication management, and coping strategies. Talk therapy may be a big part of their recovery plan. 

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and psychodynamic therapy are just some of the therapies they might participate in. Therapy can help your loved one develop coping skills, challenge negative thought patterns, and improve their emotional regulation.

Medication Management

In some cases, doctors may prescribe medication to address underlying mental health conditions such as depression, anxiety, or bipolar disorder. They might prescribe antidepressants, mood stabilizers, or anti-anxiety medications. For the best results, use prescribed medication management with talk therapy.

Support Network

Finally, rally a support network for your loved one. This is essential to keep them on the track to recovery. Kind words of compassion and motivation to keep going can help them on their journey. 

Additional Support for Suicide 

If your loved one needs intensive care for suicide, then a residential rehab that treats suicidality or an inpatient psychiatric hospital may be the best fit for them. Here, they will have 24/7 support and supervision from trained nurses and professionals. They’ll be able to grow and heal in a safe environment, separate from the triggers in their daily lives. 

These programs offer a variety of therapeutic interventions, including individual therapy, group therapy, family therapy, and psychoeducation. Therapists address the underlying issues contributing to suicidal thoughts and work on building healthy coping skills. They will also create a safety plan.

After completing the residential program, clients typically transition to outpatient care. A thorough discharge plan ensures a smooth transition and ongoing support.
Recovery is possible. Healing is possible. If you know someone that needs help, call 911 or the United States Suicide Hotline: 988.

Inpatient Treatment for Mental Health Conditions

Mental illness is highly treatable. But if you’re struggling, it can be hard to know where to start. Just remember that you are not alone, and that it’s ok to ask for help from the experts. Sometimes, the best way to begin healing is by attending an inpatient treatment program.

Residential rehab isn’t just for substance use disorders. These programs can also help patients heal from mental health conditions, manage chronic symptoms, and process trauma. They may be a good fit for those who need intensive treatment in order to kickstart the healing process.

Inpatient treatment won’t “cure” you. Most mental illnesses are lifelong conditions. However, you’ll likely leave the program with new knowledge and skills that will help you build a sustainable life. Different facilities treat a variety of mental health concerns, including but not limited to the following diagnoses:

Anxiety Disorders

The term “anxiety disorder” may refer to a number of specific diagnoses. Some of the major types of anxiety disorders1 are:

  • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) is characterized by chronic feelings of anxiety, regardless of life circumstances.
  • Social anxiety disorder causes excessive self-consciousness or anxiety in social situations. Symptoms may occur in specific situations, such as large parties or formal events, or may be present in all social interactions.
  • Panic disorder is a condition in which patients have repeated and unexpected panic attacks, including both emotional and physical symptoms, such as intense fear and an elevated heart rate.

Other more complex conditions, such as obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) are sometimes also categorized as anxiety disorders.

Although anxiety disorders are the “most common mental illness in the U.S.,”2 only 36.9% of people with these diagnoses receive treatment. These patients are six times more likely than others to be hospitalized for psychiatric disorders.

Treatment Options for Anxiety Disorders

Anxiety disorders can be treated3 with medication, talk therapy, or both. Commonly prescribed anxiety medications4 include SSRIs (like Prozac), SNRIs (like Cymbalta) or benzodiazepines (like Xanax).

Whether or not they take medication, people with these conditions often benefit from various types of talk therapy. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)5 can be especially helpful. In this modality, patients learn specific skills to help them to interrupt anxious thought patterns and navigate triggering situations.

Inpatient treatment is rarely necessary for patients with minor or intermittent anxiety. However, untreated anxiety disorders may lead to severe symptoms, including suicidal ideation. These patients may benefit from residential programs, in which they can learn new coping mechanisms in a safe, protected environment.

Bipolar Disorder

This condition, once called manic-depressive disorder, is characterized by cycling periods of depression and mania. Some patients also experience hypomania, which is a less severe symptom, and may just present as increased energy and productivity. There are three clearly defined types of bipolar disorder:6

  • Bipolar I disorder includes manic episodes that last at least 7 days, or are so severe that they require hospitalization, and depressive episodes that typically last 2 weeks. This is considered to be the most severe type of the condition.
  • Bipolar II disorder has similar depressive episodes, but includes less severe symptoms of mania than Bipolar I. Instead, patients usually exhibit signs of hypomania.
  • Cyclothymic disorder (cyclothymia) presents with similar symptoms, including some combination of depression, mania, and/or hypomania. However, patients with this condition do not meet the exact criteria for either Bipolar I or Bipolar II.

These chronic illnesses may be caused by a combination of genetics, adverse life events, and neurochemical imbalances. Because of this, treatment protocols may be complex and highly individualized to each patient.

Treatment Options for Bipolar Disorder

People with bipolar may require hospitalization7 more frequently than those with other diagnoses, possibly because of the unpredictable nature of this disorder. Severe symptoms may appear suddenly and frequently, especially if the patient does not have an adequate plan for long-term care.

This condition is most often treated with a combination of medication and talk therapy. Pharmaceutical treatment of bipolar8 may include mood stabilizers (such as lithium and lamotrigine) and antidepressants. Studies also show that certain types of psychotherapy—including CBT, family-focused talk therapy, and interpersonal and social rhythm therapy— are particularly effective.

Because bipolar disorder may be genetic and/or neurochemical, even inpatient treatment will not completely alleviate symptoms. However, temporary residential care may help patients determine which methods will be most helpful for long-term maintenance.

Borderline Personality Disorder

Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a serious mood disorder. It’s often misdiagnosed as bipolar disorder, and to the untrained eye, symptoms may appear extremely similar. However, BPD is more closely related to PTSD and C-PTSD, as traumatic life events can cause symptoms to appear or worsen. These experiences may interfere with a person’s ability to develop a stable sense of self, regulate their emotions, and maintain healthy relationships. Patients exhibit at least 5 of the 9 official diagnostic criteria for BPD, as defined by the DSM-5. Quoted directly from an article on diagnosing borderline personality disorder9 published by the National Center for Biotechnology Information, these criteria are as follows:

  • Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. Note: Do not include suicidal or self-mutilating behaviour covered in criterion 5.
  • A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.
  • Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
  • Impulsivity in at least 2 areas that are potentially self-damaging (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating). Note: Do not include suicidal or self-mutilating behaviour covered in criterion 5.
  • Recurrent suicidal behaviour, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behaviour.
  • Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days).
  • Chronic feelings of emptiness.
  • Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).
  • Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.

Although borderline personality disorder may have a neurochemical component, it is primarily a behavioral disorder. Because of this, it’s absolutely possible for these patients to improve and even go into remission from BPD.10

Treatment Options for Borderline Personality Disorder

BPD is usually treated with dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT). This type of therapy combines group sessions with 1-on-1 talk therapy. The group therapy component resembles a class, as patients go through lessons from a textbook and even complete homework assignments. Groups normally meet several times a week, while 1-on-1 sessions take place at least once a week. Unlike most other forms of therapy, patients may be invited to contact their providers by phone in between sessions.

While DBT can be effective in an outpatient setting, residential treatment allows patients to focus on healing with fewer distractions. Research suggests that inpatient DBT may be more effective at treating borderline personality disorder11 than other modalities. Talk therapy of any kind is often combined with prescription medications, such as mood stabilizers, antidepressants, or anti-anxiety medications.

Depression

Depression, or major depressive disorder,12 is an extremely common diagnosis. As of 2019, an estimated 7.8% of all adults in the U.S. had major depression. This condition is characterized by a period of at least two weeks in which the patient “experienced a depressed mood or loss of interest or pleasure in daily activities, and had a majority of specified symptoms, such as problems with sleep, eating, energy, concentration, or self-worth.”

It is important to differentiate between depression and sadness or grief.13 Depression is a mental health condition, and not a proportionate response to current life events. It is also known to damage a person’s self-esteem, and may cause feelings of worthlessness or hopelessness. Sadness and grief, on the other hand, are generally caused by specific circumstances. These emotions can be overwhelming, but they do not necessarily damage a person’s sense of self.

Depression may be caused by genetics,14 biochemistry, or environmental factors. Those with low self-esteem may also be at risk for developing this condition. Fortunately, most cases of depression are highly treatable.

Treatment Options for Depression

Perhaps because of its high prevalence, there are many different treatments available for major depressive disorder.15 Most patients benefit from some combination of medication, talk therapy, and brain stimulation therapies.

Antidepressants, including SSRIs (like Prozac) and SNRIs (like Cymbalta), are commonly used to treat major depression. Patients normally begin to see results 2-4 weeks after they begin taking a new prescription. Severe cases are usually treated with talk therapy at the same time, and mild cases may be treated with talk therapy alone. “The length and severity of the symptoms and episodes of depression often determine the type of therapy.”16

If a patient has treatment-resistant depression, they may be advised to try alternative modalities, such as brain stimulation therapies.17 Specifically, depression can be treated with electroconvulsive therapy (ECT), transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS), vagus nerve stimulation (VNS), and deep brain stimulation (DBS). These therapies are intended to have a direct effect on brain or nervous system function, alleviating the most extreme symptoms of depression.

Because it may lead to suicidal ideation, some patients may be hospitalized for depression on an urgent basis. If possible, it’s best to get help before your symptoms become so severe. There’s no need to wait for an emergency before attending a residential program.

Eating Disorders

Eating disorders affect at least 9% of the global population.18 These conditions can affect anyone, regardless of gender, body type, ability, occupation, age, race, ethnicity, or sexual orientation. However, certain demographics may be at a higher risk for developing certain diagnoses. Following are some of the most common types of eating disorders:19

  • Anorexia nervosa is characterized by the severe restriction of caloric intake. Patients with this condition may exhibit dramatic weight loss, a preoccupation with food and dieting, or adherence to an overly strict or taxing exercise routine.
  • Bulimia nervosa follows a binge-purge cycle. Patients with bulimia tend to binge eat, and then induce vomiting. Some also present with dental problems, weight loss, and excessive time spent in the bathroom after meals.
  • Binge eating disorder involves episodes of binge eating. Unlike bulimia, these episodes are not followed by purging. People with this condition may feel or express guilt and shame, hide food in strange places, and create lifestyle schedules that make time for binging behaviors.
  • Other specified feeding and eating disorders (OSFED) is a term that refers to eating disorders that do not fit neatly into any of the above categories. Patients with OSFED may exhibit weight loss or gain, and their self-esteem may be overly tied to body image.

Eating disorders are defined by a person’s behavior and emotional state, and not their body size. For example, it’s possible for someone to have anorexia and not appear clinically underweight. Eating disorders can be serious, and even life-threatening, no matter whether the patient’s weight is perceived to be healthy.

Treatment Options for Eating Disorders

Many people with eating disorders develop physical complications due to malnutrition. Because of this, hospitalization or inpatient treatment may be an important first step toward healing. This is not necessary for all patients, as it depends on the severity of their symptoms.

Some patients may benefit from residential treatment even if they don’t present with physical complications. This is an opportunity for them to begin intensive psychotherapy, work with a nutrition counselor, and be closely monitored for disordered behavior around food.

Medication alone is not usually used to treat eating disorders.20 In some cases, antidepressants or antianxiety medications may be prescribed in addition to therapy and behavioral health strategies. These patients may benefit from a number of different types of psychotherapy,21 including but not limited to acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT), and interpersonal psychotherapy (IPT).

PTSD and C-PTSD

Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and complex post-traumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD) are very similar mental health diagnoses, and are both caused by adverse life experiences. It’s important to differentiate between PTSD and C-PTSD22 in order to design an appropriate treatment plan.

PTSD is normally caused by specific, time-bound traumatic occurrences. On the other hand, C-PTSD is caused by complex trauma,23 which is the prolonged exposure to extreme circumstances such as “domestic violence, childhood sexual or physical abuse, torture, genocide campaigns, slavery etc. along with the victim’s inability to escape.” It’s important to note that C-PTSD is not yet considered an official diagnosis.24 Despite this, it is an area of interest for researchers, and some have proposed that it be included in the next edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). The shared symptoms of PTSD and C-PTSD25 include the following:

  • Flashbacks to and nightmares of the inciting traumatic event
  • Avoidance of thoughts, people, places, and activities that may bring up painful memories
  • Hypervigilance due to a constant or persistent sense of threat/danger
  • An exaggerated startle response

C-PTSD may also involve personality and mood changes, difficulty with emotion regulation, a sense of worthlessness, the risk of self harm, paranoia, and/or dissociation.

“Most people with PTSD—about 80%—have one or more additional mental health diagnoses. They are also at risk for functional impairments, reduced quality of life, and relationship problems. PTSD and trauma26 are linked to physical health problems as well.” People with a history of trauma may benefit from intensive therapy for these co-occurring disorders, which may include a period of residential treatment.

Treatment Options for PTSD and C-PTSD

It’s important for people with these diagnoses to seek out trauma-informed care. This approach to treatment takes their unique symptoms and experiences into account, and fosters a more productive environment for healing.

The primary treatment for PTSD27 and C-PTSD is psychotherapy. Clinicians strongly recommend cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and prolonged exposure therapy, although other styles of therapy may also be helpful. These two modalities invite patients to face the original traumatic events head-on, developing skills that will help them navigate flashbacks and triggers in the future.

Patients may be prescribed medication in addition to—but not instead of—therapeutic interventions. Most often, PTSD is treated with SSRIs.28

Schizophrenia

Schizophrenia is a chronic brain disorder29 characterized by difficulty distinguishing between the real and the unreal. Symptoms generally fall into one of 3 categories:

  • Positive symptoms: The abnormal presence of visual or aural hallucinations, paranoia, distorted perceptions of the world
  • Negative symptoms: An abnormal loss of or decrease in the ability to make and carry out commitments, speak, express or feel emotion
  • Disorganized symptoms: Confused speech and/or thinking, disconnected logic, and abnormal behavior or movements

Experts believe schizophrenia may be caused by a combination of genetic and environmental factors. However, the disease’s exact etiology is unknown. There may be a link between schizophrenia and substance misuse,30 especially among teens. Specifically, research suggests that “taking mind-altering drugs during teen years and young adulthood can increase the risk of schizophrenia. A growing body of evidence indicates that smoking marijuana increases the risk of psychotic incidents and the risk of ongoing psychotic experiences. The younger and more frequent the use, the greater the risk.” Continued substance use—and especially the use of psychedelics like LSD or psilocybin—can make it difficult to diagnose schizophrenia, because the effects of these drugs can mimic its symptoms.

Treatment Options for Schizophrenia

It’s extremely important to treat schizophrenia using both pharmaceutical and behavioral modalities. These patients are commonly prescribed antipsychotic medications,31 such as Abilify or Seroquel.

Talk therapy not only helps people to manage the symptoms of schizophrenia;32 it can also “ensure that patients remain adherent to their medications.” This makes every aspect of treatment more effective in the long term. In particular, beneficial talk therapies for schizophrenic patients33 include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), supportive psychotherapy, and cognitive enhancement therapy (CET).

If a person’s symptoms are severe enough to require immediate medical attention, they are likely to require admission to a hospital or residential treatment program. According to the CDC, approximately half of all emergency room visits related to schizophrenia34 “led to either a hospital admission (32.7%) or a transfer to a psychiatric hospital (16.7%).” These patients, as well as patients who are not in crisis, may find relief through longer-term residential treatment.

Suicidal Ideation

If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal ideation, get immediate help by calling the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-8255.

Suicidal tendencies may be symptomatic of another diagnosis, or may appear independently. Regardless of the circumstances, suicidal ideation is an extremely serious symptom, and should be urgently treated.

Patients with this symptom may experience thoughts or fantasies of suicide, or may be actively planning to engage in self-harm. The warning signs of suicide35 include, but are not limited to the following:

  • Talking about wanting to die or to kill themselves
  • Looking for a way to kill themselves, like searching online or buying a gun
  • Talking about feeling hopeless, trapped, or in unbearable pain
  • Talking about feeling trapped or in unbearable pain
  • Talking about being a burden to others
  • Increasing reckless behavior, such as substance misuse
  • Withdrawing or isolating themselves, losing interest in activities they once enjoyed
  • A sudden and unexplained lift in mood, expression of a feeling of peace or tranquility
  • Sudden and extreme generosity, giving away money or treasured keepsakes

Not all instances of suicidal ideation are followed by suicide attempts. In some cases, this symptom is an expression of major depression, PTSD, or another co-occurring disorder. While emergency action may or may not be necessary, it’s important to get help as soon as this symptom appears. That may mean going to therapy, starting or changing a medication, or seeking inpatient care.

Treatment Options for Suicidal Ideation

Severe symptoms of suicidal ideation require immediate care. It may be appropriate to call an ambulance, or even call the police to request an in-person wellness check. Depending on your specific location, it may be possible to have the patient temporarily hospitalized with or without their consent. During this time, they may be closely supervised by healthcare providers to ensure they do not attempt self harm.

After the immediate threat of suicide has passed, it’s important to continue with an ongoing plan of care. Patients should begin by obtaining an official diagnosis, which will help their providers design a long-term plan. Because suicidal ideation is a symptom, and not officially a mental health condition, treatments vary widely.

Remember that you deserve care. Remember: a mental health diagnosis means nothing about your willpower or your character, and healing is absolutely possible. To learn more about treatment options, search our collection of inpatient mental health treatment centers and reach out to a specialist today.

5 Ways to Help Someone Struggling With Depression

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Watching someone you love struggle through depression can make you feel helpless: you want to offer support, but you feel unsure of how to help. With approximately 300 million people worldwide suffering from depression,1 many of us will at some point be close to someone experiencing this disorder. Although it may feel exasperating at times, with a little research and the right approach, there are some steps you can take to help.

1. Learn How to Recognize the Signs of Depression

Being able to spot the signs of depression will help you distinguish between who your loved one is and how their depression makes them act. This helps you take their behavior less personally, allowing you to better protect your own well-being. And, in turn, you can more supportive to them.

Common Characteristics of Depression2

  • Sleeping or eating more or less than usual
  • Low energy
  • Unexplained physical pain
  • Loss of interest in work, school, activities, or sex
  • Pervasive feelings of sadness, hopelessness and guilt
  • Talking about suicide

2. Express Your Concern

Though it may not be comfortable to bring up, the first step to getting help is to acknowledge that there’s a problem. Severe depression can be life-threatening,3 and people lost in its fog can’t see what others see. If you’re concerned about your loved one, kindly and compassionately let them know—it could be a vital step in the right direction.

3. Listen With an Open Heart

There’s a reason depression has been called the “disease of loneliness”4—depressed people often get labeled as “downers” and further isolated from their would-be support circles. But just like we care for loved ones struggling with any other ailment, we can do the same for someone who is struggling with depression.

Depression can be downright debilitating. Simply offering a listening ear, bringing over a hot meal or sitting with your loved on to watch a movie are great ways to show your support. Since this illness makes it difficult to express any positive emotions like gratitude or appreciation, you may feel like your kindness goes unnoticed. But the truth is that thoughtful deeds like these can give someone strength to get through the day.

It also puts you in the best position to encourage them to get help.

4. Encouraged Your Depressed Loved One to Get Proper Care

The good news is that depression is treatable.5 Because it’s such a motivation killer, the role loved ones play in getting a depressed person into treatment can’t be understated. Depression that remains untreated can get worse over time, so getting your loved one into treatment is paramount. And although setting boundaries with a depressed loved one6 is often easier said than done, it’s also equally important to protect your own physical and mental health in the process. Leaving the counseling up to the professionals is the best course of action, especially for severe depression.

5. Look Into Depression Treatment Options

Treatment comes in many different forms, including inpatient rehab for depression, which can yield great results. This can be a good option for people whose depression is more acute, or who weren’t happy with the outcomes of previous approaches they tried. Treatment methods for depression vary, but typically consist of some combination of medication, counseling, and holistic therapies.

To learn more about what programs are available and browse centers based on location, specialization, and more, visit our collection of rehab centers specializing in depression.


Frequently Asked Questions

What are some ways to help someone struggling with depression?

You can help someone with depression by offering emotional support, listening without judgment, encouraging them to seek professional help, and promoting healthy habits like exercise and good sleep. Be sure to avoid making assumptions about their condition.

What should I do if someone I know is suicidal?

If you know someone who is experiencing suicidal thoughts, it is important to take their statements seriously and seek professional help immediately. You can encourage them to call a suicide prevention hotline and accompany them to get emergency care.

Can You Go to Rehab for Depression?

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If you’re having serious thoughts about suicide or self-harm, immediate help is available. Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 or visit their website to chat with an emotional support counselor

Did you know many rehabs don’t just treat addictions, but mental health and mood disorders like depression, too? In fact, many people could greatly benefit from inpatient treatment for depression.

The seriousness of depression shouldn’t be underestimated—the prolonged feelings of sorrow depression causes can hinder your ability to be an active participant in your own life and make you feel hopeless, drained and physically unwell. Depression is a life-threatening mental illness1 and often requires professional help.

Could inpatient depression treatment be the right path for you? Following, we’ll take a look at

  • When to go to rehab for depression
  • Who benefits from inpatient depression treatment
  • Where to find residential treatment centers for depression

When Do You Need Inpatient Depression Treatment?

People choose to go to residential rehab for depression for a few reasons. These could have to do with the severity of their depression, feeling like they’ve exhausted other treatment options, or wanting a retreat-like atmosphere to reset.

Your primary care doctor or qualified mental health professional can help you determine if inpatient depression treatment is the right step for you. Following are some signs that it may help you consider a more in-depth approach to tackling this persistent condition.

When Depression Takes Over Your Life

Sometimes depression is manageable, but other times it’s downright unbearable. Some depression sufferers experience such profound sadness that they can’t think of anything else. This common mood disorder can weigh heavily on those who struggle with it, making it difficult to find joy or pleasure in anything. And in this context, even simple tasks like showering, cleaning the house, and grocery shopping can feel virtually impossible.

Other signs of severe depression that could be a cue to talk to a mental health provider include

  • Isolating yourself from friends and family
  • Inability to hold a steady job
  • Using drugs or alcohol to cope
  • Not leaving your house for days at a time
  • Dramatic weight loss or weight gain
  • Bouts of unexplainable sadness and crying
  • Hurting yourself
  • Thoughts or attempts at suicide

If depression interferes with your ability to function in your everyday life, you might find relief in the higher level of care and surrounding support that rehab provides.

When Other Therapies Haven’t Worked

For some people, conventional depression treatment methods just don’t do the trick. Treatment-resistant depression2 occurs in about 10-30% of those who are with diagnosed major depression. This means that even after first-line approaches like antidepressants and talk therapy, they may still experience thoughts of self-harm or suicide, find it hard to function, and be likely to relapse into another depressive episode.

However, other options are available. Several alternative therapies for treatment-resistant depression3 are shown to work effectively, including:

  • Transcranial magnetic stimulation (rTMS)
  • Ketamine-assisted therapy (KAT)
  • Combined medication and psychotherapy

A number of inpatient rehabs are equipped with the professional staff and programming required to treat mental health and addiction comprehensively. This means they offer more opportunities to try different treatment options, including approaches that involve combining therapies.

If you’ve tried multiple medication strategies, or you’ve been in outpatient therapy for a long time without making significant progress, a more intensive option like a residential program rehab may help you make the change you’ve been looking for.

When You Need a Change of Scenery

Our surroundings have a huge impact on our mood, and environmental factors can affect the experience of depression. In fact, the WHO’s Department of Mental Health and Substance Abuse includes supportive environments in its recommendations for fostering mental health:4

“Mental health promotion involves actions that support people to adopt and maintain healthy lifestyles and which create supportive living conditions or environments for health,” according to their report summary Promoting Mental Health: Concepts, Emerging Evidence, Practice.

Research also suggests that spending more time in nature can have a positive effect on mood disorders.5 Many residential treatment facilities are located in serene, naturally beautiful areas for just this reason.

Inpatient treatment offers a chance to step away from day-to-day life, which many people find makes them more receptive to change. It can also be a good option for anyone who wants a more immersive treatment experience, even if their depression isn’t especially severe.

How Rehab Can Help Depression

Residential depression rehab allows you to commit fully to your recovery for a period of time. For those who haven’t had success with more less structured treatment options, this could mean more potential to impact your relationship with yourself, and new opportunities to see different results.

Highly Individualized Programming

High-quality rehab programs are often designed to provide you with a fully customized treatment plan. This is based on thorough assessments you receive before and during the intake, or admissions, process. These centers usually have a wide array of therapeutic methods at their disposal, from individual and group psychotherapy to experiential and holistic approaches. Your team of clinicians—comprised of some combination of medical doctors, psychologists, psychiatrists and complementary therapists—can combine different elements into a treatment plan just for you. This is good news for your outcomes, as experts agree that depression treatment is more effective with a multifaceted approach.6

Sharing Your Experience and Learning From Others

One of the most difficult aspects of depression is the crippling loneliness it entails. At a rehab that treats depression, you’ll be with others who have been through what you’re going through and understand how you feel. You’ll spend every day in an environment of professionals who can help you unpack how you’re feeling and learn how to manage it. Knowing you’re surrounded by people who are working with you toward your success can give you a much-needed boost of affirmation and encouragement.

Gaining Lifelong Tools

Oftentimes, depression is a chronic condition.7 Developing an ability to cope with it and prevent it from recurring is an invaluable asset when struggling with this disorder. Intensive depression treatment helps you build a solid toolbox of coping skills you can reach into again and again, each time you need to, well after you leave treatment. These awareness tools may help you move through depression episodes more quickly, or experience them less intensely, if they do resurface.

Depression often feels like a merry-go-round you can’t get off. Stepping away from your familiar patterns and into a treatment-focused environment can provide a welcome break from the cycle and allow you to progress in new ways. Going to treatment pulls you out of that day-to-day slump and into a structured day built around your recovery.

Taking the Next Step

If depression has prevented you from fully living your life and you’ve exhausted other avenues, then a more intense, immersive option can be a good idea. Depression rehab isn’t punishing or harsh; you can think of it as a retreat that gives you the time and space to create change. For those struggling with depression, taking the step of seeking inpatient treatment may be necessary. Check with your healthcare provider or therapist to determine if this is the right recovery path for you.

Rising above your depression starts with reaching out for help. And finding a program that meets your needs can be the most healing experience of your life.

To learn more about available programs, see our searchable list of residential depression treatment centers.


Frequently Asked Questions About Residential Depression Treatment

Can depression be treated at a rehab center?

Yes. Rehabs offer evidence-based therapies like CBT and medication to help people with depression manage symptoms and achieve long-term recovery. Additionally, many rehabs offer holistic therapies such as yoga, meditation, and massage therapy for a more comfortable treatment experience.

What’s the difference between inpatient and outpatient rehab for depression?

Inpatient rehab for depression involves living at a treatment center for a set period of time (usually from a few weeks to several months). In outpatient depression treatment, you receive treatment during the day and return home at night. Inpatient programs may be better if you have severe depression or require round-the-clock care, while outpatient treatment is good for those with milder symptoms or who have a strong support system at home.

What should I look for in a residential rehab center for depression treatment?

Look for a facility with experienced and qualified treatment teams that offer a range of evidence-based therapies to help manage symptoms and promote long-term recovery. Holistic healing approaches such as yoga, meditation, and mindfulness practices can also be helpful. You might also consider the center’s amenities, accommodations and level of personalization.